Why is it extremely difficult for a girl to get a boyfriend?

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I’ll be 26 and never had a serious boyfriend.  each year since I was 13, men and crushes I had reject me. I will never be able to have a boyfriend since all men reject me and will continue reject me til I’m old age 50.  it’s okay if I’m not meant to get married but why it’s impossible to even get a boyfriend for short term just 1-2 years and meet family , have couple pics, I don't know what it’s like spend Christmas and holidays at bfs families house and a guy arrive to my families house.  I’ll be a 26-30 year old that has no experience what it’s like to have a boyfriend. I’m settle doesn’t and wasted my 20s focusing on working and alone. Now I want a boyfriend for at least a year but we can spend all year together and live together and have blissful life.  having a boyfriend just seems like a dream to me, a boyfriend is something that will never come true , jsut a fantasy in my head. dating apps all men say they only want sex. I go out and all men r shopping with girl at the market.  Im very very skinny& short 4”11, no butt no boobs , black long hair but will dye it brown soon.  I look like I’m 18 as I was born with a baby face. Im a grown women and I can’t spend more years alone I need a boyfriend a companion. Men only like my mom as she’s fat and thick. If you aren’t thick men won’t want be your boyfriend as fat girls have huge boobs and huge fat ass. I desperatly try gain weight and I’m stuck with this fucking ugly body that men find not good enough

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

It is the same way for guys.
Finding a partner is like having another full time job.
Before I found my wife, on line, eharmony, it was come home, feed the cats, eat supper, go on the computer, look at profiles, communicate with the one (s) I was interested in, planning endless first dates, make plans for those, clean up, worry about what to wear, where to go, will this possibly work out, or just another free meal for someone that has no interest in you at all.
Once in a while you get lucky and get lucky.
It was way easier being single, just get on my bike, go to some dump bar, grab a burger, a couple beers and some bar trash to take home, or go to their place.
In all seriousness, I had good luck with eharmony.
Most of the better pay to join places like eharmony, it's just lunch are good for those looking for a relationship, not just a hook up site.
Hang in there it happens.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Could be a number of reasons. Maybe you’re not that good looking. Maybe you have a bad personality. Maybe you were always shooting for the stars as far as men when you really should have been aiming lower. Meaning your looks weren’t up to par w what men on the top were looking for. Maybe you have a masculine energy about you. Maybe you didn’t want to be a “traditional” wife. Maybe you had the I don’t need a man attitude. There’s a lot of maybes. Maybe you bought into the whole independent woman concept so rather than focusing on a boyfriend, husband, family, you focused on your career. Now you hit that age of being scared that you’ll be alone.

KateDemee · Accepted Answer

Hey

Don't be so hard on yourself. You will find someone when it's right

I'm sorry it's taking a long time for you but to give you an example I was the same. I have only had one boyfriend and that's only fairly recent really

I'm pretty shy so I never really met anyone

I'm slim and have smaller boobs too but I still met someone. It just took time but it did happen

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

Men in their 20s and early 30s can still be pretty immature when it comes to having serious relationships.

Staximus · Answer

Just go to the gym and do some buttcheek exercises and go try to find a guy some place where you like to be. Just don't jump on the first guy that comes along, figure out if he's a good guy first. If you're not big and fat and don't have a face like a bulldog, you should have no problem finding a guy. You don't have to act like a hoochie or anything. All you have to do is act like you want him around and act like you want to be more than just friends.

Berethor · Answer

There is many men who like petite a woman, so I don't think that you body is ugly, it's fine.

VikingWarLord · Answer

I do definitely go for bigger breasts, but who tf told you we want a FAAT OBEESE woman?

My current BDSM Sub is 5'3 / 110 lbs and 36 DD cup

This is her below

https://imgur.com/CGpvZEw

If you want a bigger booty, get to the gym and if you want bigger Tiits, then get a boob job.

DarkLegacy · Answer

I can assure we don't prefer fat women, i don't really know why you cannot find a boyfriend, but actually men have it harder because women are more judgmental.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Your body isn't ugly. Not all guys want the same thing. I'm sure you'll find someone eventually. Don't give up! Love will come in good time.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Getting a boyfriend or girlfriend isn't difficult at all.  Getting a quality boyfriend or girlfriend and one you are attracted to is the hard part. Sometimes something just take time.

shades777 · Answer

must be ugly, all i see is women with boyfriends, husbands, fuck buddies

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Please... im 42 only had one real girlfriend over 20 years ago and that only Lasted 2 months

In_Trance · Answer

It's something you're saying or doing (or not)

Anonymous · Answer

How long was the longest you dated someone

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