Am I the problem or am I just meeting the wrong girls?

[Anonymous]

I get some people just don't click, but I've only met one girl in my entire life who I could be myself around. She was the most genuine person I ever met and she's the only one who got to see who I really am.

But literally every other girl I've dated put my personality in a box. I just feel trapped, and I can't seem to come out of my shell, no matter how long we know eachother.

I know it sounds like a "me" problem on the surface, but it seems like all these girls are putting on an act around me. Like they're trying to be too cool or something. I can tell they're not being genuine at all, which in turn makes it impossible to open up to them.

So why are girls like this around me, and is there something wrong with me that makes them feel like they have to act a certain way? This makes dating extremely difficult

Updates

10 mo

Thanks for all the answers. I guess I got some work to do on myself

[Fireguy17]

You just haven't met the right one, and might be looking in the wrong places.

If there is something you like then if there is an area where like minded people are then look there.

That way you will have something in common

[Asker]

Thank you!

[EaterPeter]

It might be your pattern or your vibe which attracts the wrong tribe

[Alwayreckles93]

Want mebto tell you what the problem is YOUNGER WOMAN CHASNG AFTER YOUR WALLET. Get yourself a beautiful succeful doctornor attorney your same age. You want problems get yoursel a younger woman.

[LazerBean]

FYI this chick is mad because her husband dumped her for a younger, less bitchy woman.

[Alwayreckles93]

@LazerBean Excuse me Karen the only witch from wizard of oz with a bitcht addituenis you! I a humble and kind while you are over here getting complements from 30 year olds. I just don't get it what men my age see in you younger woman. Enjoy dancing in your Kimono.

[LazerBean]

Thanks for making my point

[Alwayreckles93]

@LazerBean no 31 year old has ever want you Asian face!

[LazerBean]

Thanks for proving my point further

[Alwayreckles93]

I bet you must be one of those weird emo goth people.

[LazerBean]

Considering that would be stupid of you to think, it wouldn't surprise me for you to think that

[LazerBean]

If the only two options are that you are the problem or everyone else is the problem, 99.9% of the time the answer is that you are the problem.

[Asker]

Lol, fair enough

[LazerBean]

Good luck!

[Asker]

@Imtheking2010 Thank you

[Asker]

@Imtheking2010
Lol, yeah... I'm the retard

[LazerBean]

To be fair, we don't know for sure that you are not also a beautiful hottie

[Alwayreckles93]

@Imtheking2010 Wow so you seriously need glasses. So you only cmake complements to younger woman instead of woman your own age. Nice. Then andnyou go attacking me. You and that stupud friend of yours chef pappi need to be lockedup inside a mental institution.

[Alwayreckles93]

Lazer He is lying to you. Im goin to be nice ad tell you the truth you aren't that pretty just because you are young that doesn't mean your good looking I have I look way more younger and better looking then you. I seriously can not understand what men my age see in woman your age. Disgusting. He is lying to you the truth is your not that pretty. I've seen 40 year old woman that look much better then you. No don't come up to me telling me I hate on younger woman because I have nothing to hate anout you.

[LazerBean]

I like how the triggered Karen unblocks me just to whine lol

[boggboss]

Maybe they can tell u are not acting yourself and do the same

[Asker]

You probably right

[Anonymous]

Just from your title I can say you are the problem. If the girls were the problem, it wouldn't be every girl, it might be one or two.

[Alwayreckles93]

I know whats the problem. Younger woman goodness I don't understand what 30 year old men see in you younger woman.

[Nikki1989]

A bit of both by the sounds of it.

[SadisticSlxt]

The vibe you're projecting obviously induces those emotions in women attracted to you

[inhua]

no one is to blame here

[In_Trance]

Both