I've been told that I'm pretty and have a nice body countless times. I am a naturally friendly person who smiles a lot, and sometimes I'm too nice. I have no problem meeting new people, most people get along with me and befriend me quickly. I am a bit nerdy, but people say they love that about me and they often come to me for advice. I was never in my life rude to anyone, not even when I should've been. I just don't know how to be rude. I have huge empathy and I think I'm funny too. It's not always sunshine and rainbows with me, but I don't take out on other people when I'm not having a good day. I have a bit perverted imagination (high sex drive) so I sometimes flirt with guys I find attractive. I know what I want, I'm open minded and straight forward. I don't play hard to get or stupid games, and I am a drama-free person. I am honest and I appreciate honesty. I have an amazing full-time job with great salary (rising career), I love playing video games, reading books and working out. I am not interested in hookups or anything of that sort, I want a relationship. I'm almost 30 and I only had 2 short term and 2 long term relationships, so I'm not a slut. So why is no one ever interested in me? I really try to pay attention to guys around me but no one ever shows romantic interest in me, only friendly. Not even the unattractive guys. The last time I was asked out was 3 years ago from a very handsome guy who had no brain and was just fooling around. Am I ugly? Intimidated? Is there something I could do to become more approachable? P. S. Before you say I should make moves too, I already do that from time to time and I always end up rejected. Two main reasons are "I just see you as a friend" and "I'm an ass, you're too good for me".
What's wrong with me if no one ever approaches me?
I also find it hard to meet people, especially females in genral. I'm also friendly/ flirty (tends to be sexual ina way)/ funny as well, don't even have to try sometimes. Been called 'cute'.
But never had a relationship, still a virgin, never had my first kiss either.
Girls constantly tell me how nice I am, but won't go out with me.
I'm not a rude/ disrespectful guy.
I'm starting to worry, cause I get rejected all the time, and have no luck at all.
I feel like there must be something wrong with me as well as me not being concidered 'attractive'.
But there's nothing wrong with you at all from what I read about you.
Copy and paste this into a bio for an online dating site and see how fast people start approaching you.
These days, our socializing is so complicated that it can be hard for guys to know when its appropriate to express romantic interest. There's a barrier in real life that doesn't exist on a dating website where everyone knows everyone is looking for someone.
I met my fiancée on OkCupid and we're getting married in May. Neither of us were getting approached in normal social settings, but now we're super happy things turned out the way they did, or we'd never have met.
Based on the description above, I would definitely date you if I had the opportunity to do so. You either played a little in the above description or there's something wrong in the methods that you use.
One of the reasons that people see you as a friend comes mainly from your miscommunication. In other words, you might not giving the appropriate signs of flirting. It will be too long to explain in a single comment.
Thus, if you really want me to help you in the best way I can, then send me a pm.
When was it when you were in love with someone who loved you back? Which from your 4 relationships? And why did they go wrong? What was your fault? Because it was your fault two. A relationship is a boatd game, it requires two players. If it goes wrong, both parties ruined it. Look deep into youself and you'll find the answer
This is an easy one. your hot! So most guys will be too shy or intimidated to hit on you. You dont need to make the first move. Wait for a guy that has the balls to hit on u properly. And don’t confuse a loser that will hit on anything with an actual confident man!
I don't think there's anything really wrong with you particularly, and i'm sure you will find an amazing partner soon, just don't get the idea that something is wrong with you to your head because that will affect you, never lose hope.
You've hit the "brick wall", once a women hits a certain age men tend to have a lower chance of going after them. You should have tried finding a spouse when you were in your younger 20
I loved you but never tell you. because... everything is not suit for us... u are bigger than me 7 years... & The geographical distance between us is great...
