Why is that? I'm really desperate about this
Why nobody approached me?
Why is that? I'm really desperate about this
Because people don't talk to a strangers, that is why guys almost never talk to a girl. Guys don't approach random girls because often and it is true, women aren't looking to get approached or to talk to strangers, because they will feel uneasy with the stranger. So any avance or trying to get a number for instance its not going to happen. So if that is the case, then what is the point of apporoaching a random girl, if she is going to feel uneasy, since you are a stranger? Plus you hear all the time, girls complaying that they only get approached by creepy men, I would bet all of my money that a lot of these men were not creepy men at all and were not looking for just sex either, they probably though she was pretty and they wanted to talk to her and hopefully get her number so he can get her out for dinner. Yet girls don't like talking to strangers because for some reason, girls think that stranger guys just want to have sex and nothing else. Its like confidence for some reason its like an illness? you know? A normal person wouldn't talk to a stranger on the street. Approaching a stranger its really scary, because you don't know the person and you don't know what to say to make her laugh, you know every person is different, for some people you are funny, to other you are stupid.
So that is why we often restort to date our friends, because that way girls are easy and the guy is easy as well around her.
So what you should do? If you want to get approached or get a boyfriend, you need to make friends! or go to places where people HAVE TO TALK to each other. I am talking about: Clubs, student groups, small parties etc etc.
I know I don't really approach girls much so a lot of guys probably get scared to approach too. It's hard for a guy to build up the confidence to just go up to some girl they don't know very well and ask them out. You're not ugly at all you don't have anything to worry about. It's just a lot easier if the guy knows you better and thinks you'd say yes.
Thank you for your great answer! :)
But even when guys know me they never seem to be interested in me... And I never had a bf
Some thing I think a lot of girls could work on is helping the guy know that you are interested. Flirting more often and possibly more noticeably will help. I've never had a girlfriend either, so I'm maybe not the best to ask, but as a guy who hesitates to ask girls out, I think the girl showing interest would help me a lot with my own fears.
I think you're overestimating the number of people who actually approach strangers. Approaching a stranger is a pretty difficult, ballsy thing to do. A lot of people are shy, intimidated, assume someone is out of their league, assume someone might be taken, have difficulty approaching someone if they're with other people (i.e. if you were with friends), etc.
Also, you were at a festival---not everyone goes to a festival to look for a date. It's not like going to a bar/club which usually has a pretty high proportion of single people looking to meet.
Yeah you're absolutely right!
And I was at a bar too, and still nobody approached me
Did you approach anyone?
guys do me like this too all the time and its so annoying! I think they find you pretty because your obviously gorgeous (no homo) lol but I think they want to approach but they don't know what to say or how to approach so they just look at your beauty.
smile a lot when you catch someone's eye. stare into their eyes and smile. let them know it's OK to approach and that you're friendly
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You look lovely, got nothing to worry about. Guys are easily intimidated, maybe you look like you are taken or just not available for whatever reason. I mean I would be intimidated by you cause you seem like such a good girl.
I think you're really pretty! :)
The guys probably thought you are out of their league.
I can't and don't believe that (out of my league bla bla :D)
If s girl is pretty than every guy chases her, isn't it like this?
Every guy? Well, that would work for all girls if all guys did that, but it doesn't happen.
And as you're pretty, they may think I don't have a chance. Although, maybe if you went up to those that caught your eye, and said hello. Maybe they'd think they had a chance. Just a thought.
If lots of guys looked you can't be unattractive. You DO have some crazy eyes going on in your pic though. . .
I know, my eyes are strange... :(
dont let others control your "self-esteem". Most guys don't approach because of intimidation, or the fear of rejection. If guys based how we feel about ourselves by how many girls approached us, we would all have comitted suicide by now lol.
Don't worry. You're pretty.
They're probably just intimidated like SnackG said.
there confidence is low to so yeah. like girls some guys get frusturated if the girl says no. I don't care. know that hey where all afraid to like some one and not be liked back. em I right. people.
it sounds weird but not being approached is a compliment. Most guys won't approach someone they feel they don't have a chance with.
why didn't you approached them? because your scared well they are too, geting denied sucks.
My dear you must not place so much importance on guys approaching you. We are young still, plenty of time and plenty of fish in the sea.
They're intimidated, shy, possibly taken, etc.
Thx for the one star :(
Sorry :(
Forgive me?
Why don't you approach them instead? :)
I loving the emotional support :P
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