Why do I keep having problems with my mum and dating? Is there anything I can do to improve my relationship with my mum?

[SeaStorm1]

I still get problems with my no matter what but one biggest problem is dating and relationship when it comes to guys that i did like and i did express my feelings and also shot me down like always about my mum why do you for guys that might not be suitable for you? I said i don't know. This is what is already started ruining our relationship. She always takes me out still with her when i do go and still go with my mum when comes to dates still for safety reason. this what i dislike so much but still refuse to let it go. i did try a new app called OKCupid since i ran out of option on other apps. I'm more going slow than going fast. The thing that i have noticed on other dating apps that also try some guys that have moderate learning disabilities seem to be more pushy and did keep asking me out over and over again when i said it was too soon and didn't reply back i'm thank you for interssted i'm not intersted in anymore. I started messaging a man on okcupid and was going ok and didn't anything like the other two guys that i also did met on diffcenet dating apps. I don't think I got no luck when it comes to real life men since they seem to leave me on read. The only one person that does keep on replying is one of the men that I'm messaging on OKCupid and get to know each other first. My mum always judges the one from online dating if they have a bio if they can drive or learn to drive is not suitable for me. I did ask the guy on OKCupid if he could drive and message me back but no it was too difficult for driving a manual car. My mum took a long time to apologies again. I said action speaks louder than words. It was not a proper apology at all. She does a lot of time when I do argue back. Talking doesn't work for her. Expressing my feelings doesn't work. I can't move out since I can't drive , can't move out since it is too expressive. She also likes that even if i have a boyfriend but i'm don't have a boyfriend and i'm single at moment. What are your opinion?

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I got a learning disabilities.

[RoseySarah]

Tha tyour mom is toxic and has her own huge issues wanting you with a learning disability guy... will have grandkids with learning disabilitys for sure?

Is she disabled?

Having worked with learning disabilitys two parents with disabilities have the hardest time raising kids and infant shaking syndrome likely hood goes way way up!

Nothing you do will make your mom happy! She will hate it until she accepts what ever boyfriend you get!

Try bumble might be easier and the guys you go for well like you found out are bad at dating so guys are already bad at dating so look out good luck!

[SeaStorm1]

I know it is but bumble is full of surgery daddy's. I got a learning disability to I read these comments that's I'm pointing out and I can't even have kids so.

[RoseySarah]

Good no kids maybe that is why your mom is frustrated?
Surgery daddy's?

Good no kids so I think she kinda wants to date these guys too cause she knows that they will always be around with you and her?

Like your dating for the both of you? Has she gotten a dating app? Made her own

[SeaStorm1]

No my mum already is married not single but too stubborn with me when it comes to dating men and always has been like this. sugar daddy that what I got on bumble a lot. she is also femmist to and does like when I disagree with her. she talk lot about rape withu men without learning disabilities and Take advantage of me. I try every single way and so nothing at all.

[RoseySarah]

Then she is just over protective and controlling really no way to make her happy sometimes so just either be single with happy toys or find who makes you happy and he issues come second!

Hard but sometimes the only way is her mad and you happy...

[SeaStorm1]

I don't like being single and I hate on straight couples a lots.

[RoseySarah]

So you want to be lesbian? Or just mad at others being happy?
Like trans couples?

[SeaStorm1]

I hate women to. only ever be attracted to men. I had a bad experience with both men and some women with only friendship. i got creep out from disabled dating that women was being too sexual and did blocked her.

[SeaStorm1]

I prefer gay couples

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I hope your mom could see that you deserve a relationship just like anyone else out there. :) Best Wishes :-)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)