Why men/boyfriends don’t want spend time with a girls family and meet parents?

[Sugar100]

My whole family all bring bfs to the family party, barbcue , Christmas Thanksgiving Easter party, and the men boyfriends are happy walking next to girl, meeting her family, eating, mingling. I never had a guy like this, where do these men come from? I’ll be 26 and never experienced any of this and it’s giving me Severe depression. I feel like I’m wasting my life away. 😔

my family all get perfect boyfriend and they date few months one even got proposed to fast already.
It’s not in my destiny get married either or have babies. 😔 no guy wants meet family and run away at the word meet family.
where I get a guy to have huge smile on his face arriving to the family party having fun with me? Say yes fast racing?

[Boypersonman]

For me it’s just a shyness thing if I met a girls family I would be anxious wondering if the family would like me and if we would have a good time. I have a somewhat low self esteem but if my girlfriend really wants me to meet he family I would try and gain the confidence. family I would definitely go meet her family though just to make her happy.

[PointTaken]

I don't know. I've met with all my gfs family and they met mine.

[Sugar100]

I’ll be 30-40 and never met a guys family and my family will never meet any boyfriend

[Sugar100]

😓😓😓😓😓

[PointTaken]

That's too bad. Have you tried dating apps? Or even fb dating?

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't know. I get along great with my girlfriend's family. I was nervous to meet them at first tho

[worldscolide]

Dunno, my wife's family loves me lol.

[Sugar100]

Why u don’t run away from meeting her family?

[worldscolide]

Cause I already knew I wanted to marry her. Basically my wife came into my life Ina weird way. We met at a concert. It snowed very heavily so I offered her my bed while I would sleep on my couch so she wouldn't be forced to drive 4 hours in the snow. I liked her but had no intention of dating her. But we kept talking. About a month later my wisdom teeth almost killed me. And I had to have emergency surgery. My wife is the only one that visited me in the hospital. I knew at that point I wanted to marry her. 3 months later I met her family. And a year and a half after that we were married.

[Sugar100]

But meeting family doesn’t mean u will get married. U meet fmaily as it’s the rules not cuz u will marry her

[Sugar100]

Wen u have a boyfriend it’s the tule to meet her fmaily event teenagers meet family and they break up it doesn’t mean u will get married

[worldscolide]

I won't meet a woman's family unless I intend to marry her.

[Sugar100]

It’s tradition to bring every boyfriend to meet family even teenagers do it

[Sugar100]

I’ll be 26 and no guy has ever met my family 😞

[worldscolide]

May be a tradition where you're from.. Not here.

[Sugar100]

So I’ll be 30-40 and never met a guys family?

[worldscolide]

Dunno