When we argue i feel like im going crazy. Because i will make a solid point such as "i haven't seen you in three months, why aren't you seeing me?" and he will respond with something like "Well i planned this (something he didn't even mention before the argument). So then ill agree and say "okay lets see how it goes. Then nothing changes, and when i ask why he will start saying dumb excuses; not things he is actually doing to show me he cares.
When i try to talk to him about this. Its like going in circles. Why does he never listen to my feelings? He asked to meet my parents after 2 months, and i am not getting nowhere near the same amount of effort from him. What do i do? should i bow down or back away? Is there a way to talk to men during arguments that would make him more inclined to listen?