Would you rather pursue an attractive man or be with an ugly man who pursued you?

[RandomGuy1030]

The latter

Other

[BlueScorpio]

Um I think it's important to want to fund your partner attractive and be attracted to each other. Not just on a physical basis but also other areas as well such mentally and emotionally attracted. Ibmean let's be real, most men want a woman they are attracted to. If they aren't then chances are the relationship might not work.

[Anonymous]

A significant percentage of women say “oh I rather be pursued by an unattractive man who wants me” but that’s just a ego fix for their attention needs.

In reality they crave the challenge of a mysterious and at least semi attractive guy who pushes/pulls with his intentions (at least in the beginning).

For the most part women are not attracted to men they know “they have”. Even if the guy is semi good looking if he lacks challenge it’s a turn off. They friéndzone that.

Now to be fair men can to a much lesser extent be turned on by challenge. But we don’t have attention needs like women do where we feel content on getting attention for the sake of attention but nothing else. This is one reason why so many women love to friendzone men. The attention is more than enough for them.

[BlackBeauty90]

Most guys like what you described or losers

[Opinion Owner]

@BlackBeauty90 I do not think it’s okay for men to disrespect and abuse women. But really there is something about challenge and mystery that turns most women on. If he is too available they get bored quickly, reject and friéndzone.

[ShellyB]

Are you asking only about appearance? Bc that is one factor but not the only one or even close.

Without getting too detailed or nitpicking, if a guy asks me out and I like him, and I am single and don't have any other reason I can't do it, I will go out with him, if I still like him and he asks me out again, I will go out again and if it continues that way we will be in a relationship. It is really that simple.

[Guy13]

I chase the pretty girl.

[MendaciousMarxist]

Neither, I don't pursue, I'm not a man and I knoq my worth. I'm not dating anyone who falls short on mystandards either

[RandomGuy1030]

Your worth as what.

[MendaciousMarxist]

I'm a high value woman and high value men don't like being chased.

[RandomGuy1030]

Yes we do. Your idea of highーvalue isn't what matches with reality.

[MendaciousMarxist]

We? lmao, if your on G@G, i doubt you're high value. especially at 18! and no, I know reality. I have had sex with many HVM in the past so I know.

[CoolCatMar1]

I also wouldn't date an unattractive man

[RandomGuy1030]

You are 31. You better have had sex with a hvm. Nothing more cringe than some 31 year old female virgin. Like you got life on easy mode and you still couldnt get any.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

There's no practicality in love with what we want. But there is a practicality in neither wanting to nor being pursued.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

An attractive man, even though, considering my taste in men, he's probably closer to a 5 or 6 lol. A man doesn't deserve to settle for someone who just finds him unattractive.

[Theabcking]

And you don't deserve a man who will pay for dinner or buy you gifts until you give the sex.

[Poliker]

I do not really want to date, ever. So, pinning for a hot guy suits me more than being with an ugly guy.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Never someone who I find ugly. If I don't find you attractive I don't deserve you and you should find someone who does find you attractive.

[TacosRAwesome]

How ugly is ugly? And how much effort does the attractive guy need?

[AsaKyo]

What someone finds "ugly" may be beautiful to another lmao

[Anonymous]

Definitely the latter, the former would just make me feel shitty. I've actually done it before, and he broke up with me later, but at least I feel less repulsive now than if I got rejected again.

[Anonymous]

An ugly men who pursue me
Thank you

[Anonymous]

I like Latina women.

[moonpie89]

Which ever can make my girl parts hum 😏

[Anonymous]

Are you the ugly one?

[RandomGuy1032]

I would rather be pursued. It feels better