Am I overeacting?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a friend, I'll call her S, who I'm not sure I'm overreacting about. My boyfriend's best friend, I'll call him P, has joked about S and my boyfriend several times. A couple years ago, someone told me P was joking about my boyfriend and S in a suggestive way. I didn't hear about what specifically was said and my boyfriend assured me it was P being weird when we talked. This week, I've overheard P joking about her again in regards to my boyfriend. Saying my boyfriend is simping for her. I've been getting to know her recently and she's said she wants to be friends. So I don't think she's done anything (she seems so nice) and I don't think they've cheated. I just feel like maybe something happened in the past for P to joke about her and my boyfriend being together.

[petitedollbabee]

So it sounds like P is just stirring drama to get under everyone’s skin. I’m not sure why your boyfriend would be friends with someone like that but hey, we all make stupid choices. You should sit down and have an honest conversation with your boyfriend, let him know that P’s suggestive remarks are making you uncomfortable or upset.

[Danny_dan92]

First of all I don't know why you feel the need to use letters to identify the people given for one you’re already anonymous yourself. And also due to the amount of people exist in this fucken planet.




That being said, to answer your question. Find out if he hangs out with the girl one on one somehow. If they do? Then there’s definitely some fuckery going on

[Asker]

I did so because I know someone else "irl" knows me and our mutual friends.

[Danny_dan92]

And do you know they are on this? Cause if so, if they see this, even with what you said they’d put the two together. That is if they have a brain

[Asker]

Not really enough info for that but thanks for concern

[Danny_dan92]

No problem

[Guy13]

You are overreacting