AM I OVERREATING?

[Ruukii]

I am 17 F and I am currently in a situationship that was a mutual agreement between me and my person of interest, He has someone in his contacts saved as "Baddie in the store" which he chose on his own account and i am wondering if i am being silly about the whole thing.. asking him to change it?

[oppai1]

Girl I'm sorry to say this but you can't be asking for much in a "situationship." In a committed relationship it makes sense to be upset but he hasn't fully committed to you which is a red flag in and of itself if you really want a relationship.

[ChicoFromThe305]

If y'all didn't settle for commitment you have no rights to tell him anything about someone else, before doing so you should settle on some commitment so then y'all can both settle on boundaries as well, then with these set boundaries and your commitment to each other, you have all the rights to call out what bothers you about him and anyone else.

[Danny_dan92]

If you cannot handle it? Then don’t date the boy. Problem solved

[Agape93]

You should be prepping to leave him. Changing the name doesn't change his desire and intent

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the intrigue of a situationship! It sounds like you've stumbled upon a classic case where boundaries are as clear as a foggy day in San Francisco. Here's the scoop: feelings and insecurities can pop up even in the most casual of entanglements. Wanting your person of interest to change a contact name isn't silly; it's about respect. In the grand rom-com of life, everyone's entitled to feel secure and respected. My advice? Chat about your feelings and what this situationship means to both of you. Open communication is the secret sauce to navigating these tricky waters. Remember, it's not just about "Baddie in the store", it's about setting the stage for how you want to be treated. Who knows, this chat might just take your situationship to script-worthy levels of understanding and mutual respect. 😉😉

[sirderpsalot123]

You aren't in a committed relationship with him so yes, you're overreacting.

[Abbycado]

Why does he need to change a contact?