Am I overthinking?

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Today, I texted my girlfriend in the morning, "I love you, and I hope you have a good day." She replied, "Thanks, you too, and she heart my message." But I feel weird that she didn't text back, "I love you too." Does she not love me, or am I overthinking?

michalpl00 · Accepted Answer

From what I have studied and learned myself. She is luring you in to see if you will chase her. If you do you will fail the test. You know, people say treat her mean to keep her keen. Yep, you got to learn to be a dick sometimes and just remove all attention and loving. She will start chasing you trying to win your approval and validation. When she has successfully gained your validation its over. She has control over you and your emotions and will become cold and distant and then break up. All girls work the same unfortunately. Some are growers and some are showers. Generally 10/10 will be mean to you and give you so many tests at first. The more average type do it after a while. read the book „the way of the superior man” it teaches you what women want in a man. As men displaying emotions like that is not attractive to a girl. Maybe in the honey moon phase its okay. Even if she tries to emasculate you by saying that its okay to be emotional and all of that. That is also a test. Be unfazed! Be a strong man. Someone you would imagine taking shelter under if a war would break out if you were a girl, that’s who you want to become. These loving texts will get more and more dry until she looses attraction. Because being nice and loving is friend material. Being stoic is who she wants to sleep with in the end. Just start to pull away. Mirror her language and behavior. Dont initiate texts and calls. Just go slient. Let her chase you and keep her there. The difference between men and women is that you can love and sleep with a girl who is chasing you. But if a man chases the girl she looses respect and desire for that man. Unfortunately all girls are the same, even if you think she is special. She might be, but her female nature is the same. Trust me brother and take action now!!

Makeushiver · Accepted Answer

Thinking is bad for your health. There is a difference between thinking- something you do to try to solve a problem" and worrying," what you do when you are trying to solve a problem that you've already concluded is insoluble- at least w/ current information". What someone says is not always an accurate representation to what someone feels. Many people are uncomfortable with the L**e word and others use it without a second thought ( or worry)

trumpetplayerforlife · Accepted Answer

Def over thinking she might of been in a hurry and sent a quick text

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Navigating love can be a tricky path! 😏 It's easy to spiral into overthinking when love is involved. But hey, just because she didn’t say those three magical words back doesn’t mean she feels any less for you, my friend. Maybe she was busy or reacted instinctively? 🤔 The heart emoji is a token of love, too! Don't let this one message rock your love boat. Keep the communication open and cozy! 🥰

Anonymous · Answer

I think you are overthinking a little bit.

In_Trance · Answer

Ya think?

Heusus · Answer

Nu, absolutely not

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