Am I overthinking?

[Anonymous]

so this guy i been on and off with (just dating not exclusive ) texted me this morning saying goodmorning have a nice day and i was wondering is he trying to dismiss having a conversation with me early? lol

[Cutea]

Can you start a conversation after he said that?

[Asker]

true i can but he's making me feel like i should chase him.. i just recently reconnected with him after 3 months (he did wrong so i left) he keep begging for me to talk to him and i dont feel like i should b chasing him honestly

[Cutea]

Okay, lets be honest what would you want with him?

Are you sure that you want him?

If yes, he will need a little push from time to time for him to connect with you

Do you want him to text you a lot, call you or hang out?

[Asker]

i just want to take things slow because he still does what he does and im now not putting my eggs in one basket but he acts like im the one who did something and should be showing all this effort but i understand what you're saying about him needing the push, i like him and i do care about him i just dont want nothing to feel forced

[Cutea]

Girl, take it as something fun nothing more for the moment. When he text you "dry" message like this just add a little something like let say you are at coffee shop in the morning, whatever you are have take a picture. Then you reply good morning and say something like " aww, that's too bad you are not having amazing breakfast with me". Try to see what he responds, flirt and just have fun with it. This is not forced, he might me a little insecured about what to do. Just have fun playing. Don't forget we are women, so we are the most interesting creatures 😉 take it to your advantage. It is natural for us to flirt and get attention

[Asker]

okay thank you i will do this yes he is a insecure person at times

[Cutea]

You're welcome. I am here if you need any advice I can help with

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes, he just said hello.

[Asker]

ok because he be bipolar i dont know if he be mad about something or not he usually dont say that lol

[Aurav22]

😂😂

[Asker]

lol dont laugh he be acting weird for no reason