Why am I being constantly ghosted?

[Anonymous]

Like am I just having bad luck or am I doing something wrong or... what? Like I don't think I'm doing anything wrong, I do have mental health issues but I don't mention those right away or usually at all when I'm meeting someone.

[CanadianLearner]

> mental health issues

Of what kind? How does it effect your behaviour?

These things can be off-putting, and the solution to that is to heal yourself more first.

It's possible that it doesn't have to do with your mental health, though.

[Asker]

ADHD, undiagnosed autism (but likely given past diagnosis/evaluation notes that "there isn't enough evidence to support a diagnosis of autism at this time"

As far as behavior goes it just makes me socially awkward. And there's no way to cut it off because it's a part of who I am.

[CanadianLearner]

Well, if you think it's the ADHD/autism, then you'll have to learn to use it to your advantage.

Highlight the best parts of yourself.

Could be something else entirely, though.

[Labokachulaa]

It sounds like something you may be doing or saying subconsciously, or it could have nothing to do with you at all and it may be the people you're meeting?

[alice55]

Personally i ghost when thé person bore me and we have nothing to say to each other

[In_Trance]

Must be something you're saying or doing (or not)