Would you date a fully transitioned trans person who you could not tell was if they didn’t let you know they were?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Guy13]

I would not as I have accidentally been down this road my first time to Asia. Thank God for Expats as I went after the best looking most petite Northern Thai porcelain "woman" in the room.

Very friendly etc... before I got too into her we talked for a like 3 hours with choppy Thai and English figuring it out. Weddings, Cosmetology person... turns out "she" has done royalty/lawyers kids make-up for weddings.

Expat pulled me to the side. "Listen, the prettiest are 'Lady boys' and that's across the whole country." 'Lady boys' is how many of them self-describe too. "She" knew I was aware after that and could feel the disappointment BUT I have run into him since and we are friendly but understand one another.

This was not Bangkok or Phukhet...

[MCheetah]

1. I can ALWAYS tell that they're not a biological woman, whether that be their jawline, their Adam's Apple, their lack of hips, their deep voice, or the fact that they're 6'2" and have shoulders like a linebacker.

2. No, I'm not homosexual so I have zero interest in dating a man who likes to think of himself as a "woman," nor any other members of the LGBT. And I'm sick of certain members of the LGBT thinking they can shame straight people into going gay/"pansexual" for them. We're not going to go gay for a transperson; stop trying to make it happen.

[Berethor]

No, transwoman is still not real woman, "she" was born as a male, and can't give birth.

[slatyb]

I'm skeptical there is such a person.