I'm starting to hate my relationship what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I miss being single I looked my best as my hair was always styled and I had less stress. Now I feel I'm just working and tidying up after a guy should I just call it a day and live the single life happy. Before the guy I was single for years I just don't think I'm cut out for it. He also says he's very happy with

[abc3643]

Yep, hit the eject button. You don't have freedom exorcised from your system yet.

I feel sad for young people... you have this internal war to be with someone (for sex and mating) but you also have the newfound freedom of being a young adult.

Unfortunately, just when you reach the age that you begin to forget how important freedom is to you, the mating/sex drive then becomes dominant and you get into a relationship - often a quick, bad relationship - and * POOF !! * your freedom is practically gone.

Unless the relationship is really really good and you still feel you can be free, you begin to long being free again; you don't want to be an adult having to live by others' rules and constraints like you did as a teen in your parents' home. So, as the relationship zeal begins to wane, the longing for freedom becomes increasingly powerful... often to the point that one of you ends it.

This is why so many couples and marriages break-up...

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Well, I think you are at that point. The relationship zeal is now losing to the urge for freedom.
I think it's time to break-up. You can be easy on him... "It's not you, it's me." and that's actually rather true here - you need more freedom and to lower your stress right now and that means not being in ANY relationship with any man.

[Summeroflove]

Best to break it off if you’re not happy. Do it for him too. Don’t make him miserable either. Be honest about how you feel and break it off

[rienna888]

I feel that way too. I feel so stressed in my current relationship, like being paranoid of him cheating, and wondering if likes me or will ask me to hang out. I love my man that’s why i feel like I’d be so broken hearted if we broke up. But I hate the stress

[Labokachulaa]

It sounds like you're unhappy or just find him to be a turn off. I would just let him know and end the relationship.

It sounds like you'd be more happy if you were single.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Congratulations you finally realized the point of dating or marriage, but if you really miss being single you should be honest with him. You may not know he probably doesn't mind breaking up with you so you can be a single person again while he can find a girl who is honestly looking for a committed relationship.

[MoonSkies2]

To be honest, you just stopped being interested in him and should end the relationship asap. You just don't want him anymore in your life, and that's alright. But you should be honest with yourself and him.

[Asker]

I'm never getting into a relationship again. I was single for years before and wasn't this unhappy

[FilmGuy93]

It has nothing to do with what you’re cut out for; you shouldn’t be tidying up after your guy. You aren’t his mother. You (probably) don’t need to be single, what you need is healthy boundaries.

[spartan55]

Got news, that's how relationships go. You should stay single.

[Asker]

Bloody right fuck that

[icedragoom]

Be an adult and at least brake up with him face to face and be honest with him don't tell him any lies or say I am sorry just give it to him straight

[AmeerX]

I think you are feeling what I am feeling when I felt pressured to marry by my parents.
I want a single life or life with someone of my choosing ((

[Alex8736]

the final decision is yours and if you're not happy then simply take a break and if it makes you happy then keep it civil and end it. life's too short and we only live once. carpe diem

[Anonymous]

There are only 2 things that make a woman unhappy...

1) Getting what she wants.

2) Not getting what she wants.

[Anonymous]

Then just be single sounds like you already have your mind made up

[Danny_dan92]

Break up. No shit right?

[Sasha0426]

Might as well just end your relationship.

[harrison102]

Break up if you not happy

[Anonymous]

Double down?