What should i expect from girl who had left toxic guy for me, she wanted to breakup with the guy few times but he was begging her crying not to leave instead of trying to fix something so she stayed for 2years with hem and hoped for something to change because she loved hem. So one day we met and started hanging out as friends and she didn't let me to kiss her or anything for weeks but at one moment she realised she's going to break up with the guy and started dating me and after few weeks she broke up with the guy and doesn't regret it, she shows me love care, loyalty even if it sounds weird whe she kind of cheted on her ex. What should I be thinking. She also said she was very lost at the time and regrets she did it very messy, she was 18 when she did that, now after a year she seems like a different more happy and mature person. I trust her but deep down i have some kind of worry that comes out from time to time and doesn't let me sleep.
Leaving toxic person for someone else?
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Just be and continue to be yourself, and grow whenever you can.
She obviously chose you, so whatever you have is better than what she was seeing in the other guy- which to her was the absolute worst.
Like others say- there are “rebound stuff,” but the way I see it, is she knows a little bit more about what she wants because these girls learn about how crappy guys can be and they develop certain standards afterwards, if they don’t instead become numb and accepting of that stuff. She broke up, so she’s trying to live better and do right.
Even if you were some minor level of rebound, a girl will develop feelings with anyone they spend a lot of *quality time* with. If you keep dating with her and continue not looking like the other guy and continue helping her forget the other guy, (being yourself and growing), than she may be someone you can consider long-term with.
If you don’t like her and wouldn’t want her long-term, just end it so she can really to the definition rebound with someone else.
Or
if you don’t like her, let her rebound with a healthy guy like yourself (you), and then gradually “lose feelings” or show slow distance, so she can also lose feelings and maybe realize or believe you weren’t her type either.
If you want to pursue this, keep going.
Some of the most hurt people make the best lovers. SOME. The rest turn into devils lol and NOT fallen angels.
It’s a 50/50; weigh her out. She stood with him for two years because of crying? She may be a fallen angel.
BE NICE. Be safe 😊 have fun and happy lovin’
Be very wary of rebound relationships and people that come from toxic relationships they will leave and come into the new relationship with whatever a mental damage or physical damage that was done to them it's not intentional this nobody's perfect most people in life are damaged but rebound relationships they usually only have a shelf life of three months to a year maybe less depending on what kind of emotional trauma they were going on and getting into a new relationship right away never fixes the problems and issues this person had.