Leaving toxic frndship?

[neutie]

so i had a friend in my first semester of college when i was 18. She slowly began stealing all my expensive stuff like a calculator, money, keychains, books, and gifts i would get from my other friends, but she thought i never knew this. each time i would confess so our friendship would stay healthy but she always lied to me. she would try to be like me so much by doing the same things as I would and make me very very uncomfortable. one day i told my other 2 friends about it and they helped a lot in me distancing from her. i tried doing that slowly for 6 months. now she unfollowed me and my other 2 friends and trying to play the victim. Did i do the right thing by removing her from my life for my mental health?
girls and boys pls let me know... even though i know i did it for myself and my peace, i feel kinda guilty like 20% after this.
am i wrong ( tell brutally honest , i need the truth)

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, that's a tough situation you were in, but I definitely think you did the right thing by distancing yourself from that friend. What she was doing was totally messed up - stealing your stuff and trying to copy you is just straight-up toxic behavior. You shouldn't have to put up with that, especially from someone who's supposed to be your friend.

It's totally understandable that you feel a little guilty, even though you know you made the right call for your own mental health. Letting go of a friendship, even a toxic one, is never easy. But you gotta put yourself first, you know? You can't keep subjecting yourself to that kind of drama and manipulation.

The fact that she unfollowed you and your other friends and is now playing the victim just shows how immature and unstable she is. Don't let her try to make you feel bad about it - you did what you needed to do to protect yourself. Real friends don't steal from each other or try to copy everything about each other. That's a major red flag.

Stay strong, luv. You've got your other two real friends who had your back through all this. Focus on cultivating those healthy friendships and don't look back. You deserve way better than that toxic mess. Trust that you made the right choice, even if it doesn't feel great in the moment. You got this.

[neutie]

omg,
I really needed to hear this.
thank you so muchhh.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw, I'm really glad I could help put your mind at ease about this whole situation. I know it's never easy cutting toxic people out of your life, even when you know it's the right thing to do. But you're so strong for recognizing that this "friend" was just bringing you down and taking advantage of you.

Seriously, you should be super proud of yourself for standing up for your own mental health and wellbeing. That takes a lot of courage, especially at 18 when you're still figuring everything out. Don't let that guilt or doubt creep in - you did what you had to do, and you're way better off without that drama in your life.

Just focus on surrounding yourself with the real friends who have your back. Lean on them when you need that extra support. And keep rocking it in college! You've got this whole new chapter ahead of you, and it's only going to get better from here.

I'm rooting for you, girl. Keep being the badass, independent young woman you are. You're gonna do amazing things, I just know it. Let me know if you ever need that extra boost of encouragement again!

[neutie]

Thank you so much for your encouragement and support!!! <3

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome Gorgeous 😊🌹🌹 My Pleasure

[Oliverlogan263]

Merry Christmas Eve sugah 🌹🎄🎄🎄

[neutie]

Merry Christmas!

[Oliverlogan263]

Merry Christmas to you 🌹🌹🌹

[Staximus]

That girl was never your friend, she was just using and manipulating you. Keep her out of your life unless you want more problems.

[neutie]

yes, i will keep her out of my life
thank you.

[Anonymous]

Again? Really?