What are some signs I shouldn’t trust a possible girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[CA4444]

If they lie, I can’t stand even small lies…need to be genuine with you, it’s usually easy… until it’s not ie for though questions. Need to have some strength in opinions I believe, some character. Or if they hide stuff or play games, which comes down to lying again. Some women you can trust them not to cheat it will be easy for them not to, but they can still manipulate you, want your money, or just be using you just because they want a relationship. Men usually are black or white with this but but women are more complicated…

[Anonymous]

You asking this question either means they aren't trustworthy or you aren't ready

[Asker]

Lol very helpful

[Asker]

I was speaking in general terms , you never got bad vibes off of someone before while talking?

[Opinion Owner]

I have, I definitely have, and for the aforementioned reasoning I backed out...

[Asker]

Thats my plan if im put in that position, just asked what should give me bad vibes because I've been manipulated before

[Opinion Owner]

Vibes are difficult to define that way. My bff and I have a rule, her new bfs have to meet me by the cliffs at a local lake at night and answer my questions WITHOUT her help... This way I can't see them, and they can't put on the charm, it also can be off-setting for them. They have to answer a series of questions I've composed and designed to expose liars and those without prospects... So far it has worked.

[Opinion Owner]

Boil off the charm and it's easy to see if they can be trusted

[Asker]

I dont think a girl would want to come to a cliff with me at night 😂😂 very elaborate

[Opinion Owner]

It's a very elaborate thing... My entire point is to make them uneasy, throw them off of their game, get the truth. They never quite see me, just hear me, an intimidating thing if you have ill will towards an Indian on her own ground, as I am only seen and heard when I choose to be, and people know this... and know that the only way into my friends panties is to answer honestly, because she warns them that I WILL ferret out lies.

To quote Doctor Who "a single word, the truth is simple, lies are words and words and words, but the truth can be told in a single word."

Elaborate pomp and circumstance is fun.

[FreyaRed]

Generally same signs other people sent if they lie or try to manipulate you. They try to give you the feel they are better than you. This is probably number one sign.