Should I move on if she only replies once a day?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been texting this girl I met in college, and we’ve spent time one on one a handful of times. She’s been putting in a lot of effort, and sharing a lot of things about her. However, she replies to me once a day. On the other hand, she was the one who texted me first. Not sure what to make of it.

[Guy13]

She have a boyfriend already? You have access to private Insta etc?

[Asker]

No boyfriend

[Guy13]

Then ask her out and nip this in the bud.

[Anonymous]

I’m not big on texting being the most substance a situation has. You need in person interactions to balance things out otherwise it will flop no matter what. Is there a reason you aren’t hanging out more? Or do you see each other often; and it’s just the fact that you don’t text a lot that irks you?

[Asker]

We haven’t been hanging out because she’s been busy with school and her major is really labor intensive. But she’s the one who texted me around the time the semester ended

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you should talk to her and get on the same page about what the expectations are on both ends. While I get that she texted you first, I also understand that things can change and maybe whatever her intention was when she first reached out isn’t quite the same anymore, because as you know, things can change. So maybe she isn’t quite as available now as she thought she’d be, or who knows maybe she just had you in mind and wanted to check in. But in any case you don’t want to invest into her when if it’s ultimately pointless, so I hope you consider having a chat.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. You just said she's putting in a lot of effort and sharing personal stuff with you. A girl that doesn't like won't do that.

Don't put too much thought into texting.