Girl lied to me about being single, and she has a fiancé. Can this work out?

[Anonymous]

I’m in love with this older girl who I found out has a fiancé. She’s in love with me too, but she’s been with him since forever, so she can’t let go of him just yet. What’s crazy too, is that I’m the opposite of that guy. He’s like on steroids, and much older like her. Meanwhile I have more of a model type-look and younger. She really loves me, so much so. And I don’t know if I’m being stupid but she confessed to me about having a fiancé. And I agreed to stay her secret lover till she lets him go. What’s crazy is that she gets super jealous of girls with me, but she’s literally cheating.

[Anonymous]

Hmm.. fucking the fiancee of roid man? What could go wrong?

She doesn't love you, you are being used, like a tampon and will be discarded in the same way.

She is with that guy because she enjoys the perks of being with him, like protection, he may also be paying for her. She isn't going to just give that up for no reason and she doesn't need to give it up in order to extract whatever it is that she wants from you.

She is presumably bi or whatever, like omni sexual; she is submissive to her dominant roid owner but also enjoys owning and being dominant over females or weak pretty sissy men or trans or whatever.

This is why it is 'weird that you are completely different to him' you are not competing in the same space, you are not a replacement for this man you are a plaything.

That guy might even know all about you, maybe she is allowed to have her little sissy boys? Who knows, anything is possible.

There is a good reason why it feels unacceptable to be commited to someone who isn't commited to you and its not rocket science, its because it is unacceptable, you are having trouble processing that because you have been mind raped quite possibly by a narcissist or similar mind controlling abuser.

RUN AWAY.

ZERO CONTACT.

[Asker]

You got it wrong, I’m not feminine. He’s just a meathead who’s not the best looking. Hence why she loves me. I think it’s because I’m a younger attractive guy than him. She loves me though. And she proves it all the time. She tells me that I’m her dad. And her only family she has

[Opinion Owner]

Uh huh..

[AshViper]

@Guffrus - he said in response to my post that she approached him **online** first. So it's possible they "met" via a dating site or similar & there are people on online sites that are couples looking for entertainment.

He says she licks his feet as an example on my post so she's definitely got a sub fetish.

So what you summarize is a good potential.
Maybe they've got some sort of "cheating" fetish going on where she fucks some pretty boy & her fiancé in turn "punishes" her with rough sex or something like that at home.

[Opinion Owner]

@AshViper Yeah, I think its probably something like that going on. Probably more likely than not that the boyfriend knows and allows this behaviour for whatever reason. The specific dynamics could be anything.

[Asker]

You guys are ridiculous. I threatened to tell on her fiancé if she didn’t tell the truth about being in a relationship with him. Because she was hiding a social media account from me, and I saw she in a relationship with him. So he has no idea. And @AshViper, she totally misread that. She has no idea what’s going on

[DaveJord]

So, honestly if you are having fun then enjoy it for as long as it lasts, but honestly, I do not see this as long-term healthy relationship. But I mean why the fuck not enjoy it and see how it goes? But I would consider dating other women. But you if can see anyway that you can do that without getting hurt in the end then get out of this situation with her... because honestly, I do not think people like her will ever leave the sugar daddy she has, because she can find another you.

[BlueScorpio]

No, it can't work out. You're really going to trust someone that just proved to you that they're unfaithful and cheater? Really? What makes you think you're special enough to make her not do the same to you in the future? Why are trying to get with someone who is unavailable but also incapable of trusting? You're putting yourself in terrible situation and sooner or later, sooner later you're going to be wonder if you're the next fiance she cheats and dips on. Not worth it.

[AshViper]

Do you want your neck broken? Because that's what'll happen when her steroid abusing fiancé gets wind of the fact his trashy girlfriend has been screwing you.

Besides why the hell would you want to be involved with a slut? You would literally be wasting your time, money and efforts on an ungrateful skank. She has already proven she is unfaithful so why would she remain faithful to you?

[Asker]

I’m not scared of him. I’ve seen his instagram. And she’s the one who approached me online, so she fell in love with me at first sight. I was thinking of leaving her, but I can’t help that I love her. And I never met a girl who was obsessed with me as her. She would literally lick my feet if I wanted her to do that for me. So I know she’s really in love with me. Plus, I like her age, I have a fetish for older women. So it works out. I know she’ll him eventually, but it’s hard for her given that he proposed to her before she met me. She told me not to worry about him, so I believe her. And she tells me all the time that I’m the only guy she loves.

[AshViper]

She approached you because she saw "sucker" written across your forehead with a bright glowing neon marker. Neon sign flashing, "sucker, sucker, sucker".

by the way if you have money or come from a well off family she doesn't love you, she loves your wallet.

Regardless she's already proven herself to be unfaithful so why in god's name would you bother wasting time on the tramp?

[AshViper]

Oh I reread your post. She approached you online. Oh my. You are a desperate little twit. She's playing you like a violin for her & his amusement. Once bored, you'll be dumped like yesterday's garbage.

[Asker]

I wanted to leave several times, but she begged me to stay with her. So who’s dumping who? She said she can’t live without me.

[Summeroflove]

I would dump her soon as possible. She cheated on both you and her fiancé at the same time.

I wouldn’t be with a cheater and a liar no way

[OlderAndWiser]

I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assum that this is a real situation and that you are not a moron. I have one question: Did you need coaching to act this stupid?

[Avicenna]

Hell no. Block her. She is nothing but trouble and will dispose of you when she’s bored.

[exitseven]

There are so many things wrong about this I don't know where to begin. Maybe we start with the fact that the boyfriend is on steroids. If this guy catches you banging his fiancé he might rip you head off. Look up "Roid Rage' on the internet and see what you find.

[JPresidente]

She will never let him go and you'll be hanging on forever. She's having her cake and eating it to. Ditch the girl and move on, trust me dude. If she comes crawling back, it will only be to use you. If you were ever with her, she'll cheat on you.

[bamesjond0069]

No it can't work out. She's already older and that's a big no no. The fact she's cheating means if she leaves him for you, which she probably won't, then she's just going to cheat on you too.

Hit it a bit more if you must but under no circumstances be in a relationship with this woman.

[Messianic_Monk]

Do you really want it to work out between you two? A girl who is engaged leaving them to be with you? Who says she won't do that with you? And why would you take another man's woman?

[DryGermanGuy]

"Tell me, who was it you left me for? Was it Laszlo, or were there others in between? Or aren't you the kind that tells?"

- Richard Blaine, Casablanca

[FinalFantasyBro]

Bro get out of their before it's too late don't get with a woman who not only unfaithful but also has a fiance trust me her fiance might find out and he will be pissed off don't do it.

[ShadezMcgee]

If she is cheating with you, she WILL cheat on YOU too you idiot.

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/q9MQYdqbWD8

You're in lust, you fool. LOL
You'll be the next one she dumps after she gets tired of you.

[Ironic_Method]

She's cheating on someone she liked well enough to marry. What makes you think she won't do the same to you?

[Anonymous]

Matthew 7:12

So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.

[LiamJHayden]

If she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yeah, super easy. Just drop her (as in eliminating all contact)

[In_Trance]

Bruh..

[JesseJayNeak]

Break up with her. You’re only making a fool out of yourself if you had it her way

[WhitneySnow]

Be careful. She might be leading you on.

[msc545]

He is the one with the money. Dump her.

[Andres77]

Run!!!