How can a 36 yr old male make their dating profile more interesting?

[Vinnygraphix]

I have swiped right on an app about 7,500 women potential matches under a month i still have not met a match yet, and never received any likes. “ I have no friends to hang out with, no siblings, none of my family members even reach out.” For a guys night out. I live in the big apple. I don’t have any hobbies and all i did since my teens is school & work.

[Aerissa_Jade]

You don't, women get hundreds or thousands of hits per day. There is no possible way to go through all of those.

Your profile, likely looks exactly like 500 other guys each one gets per day.

I don't even bother anymore, I prefer to meet in person. Try https://www.meetup.com/

Find local clubs, groups or activities to hang out with people to make friends.

Don't go expecting to hook up or start dating, just make friends. People you meet may not even be interested in you like that, but they may know someone who is and be willing to set you both up.

Best of luck

[Vinnygraphix]

Thing is i dont have a place to live im sleeping in my aunts living room + she has me on a curfew

[ChiTown33]

The best advice I can give is "less is more". Guys think that putting a detailed bio helps thier chances the reality is it hurts your chances. The truth is most women don't even read profiles. They look at your pics and that's 80% of the determining factor. Good pics are crucial! You've heard the old saying "a picture is worth a 1000 words". Nothing could be truer in this case. Women are ruled by thier emotions they look at one picture and thier brain starts writing a story for you. And trust me anything they create in thier head will be 10 times better than anything you could write. So don't go f***ing it up by saying something.🤣

[OlderAndWiser]

Without seeing your current profile, how would we know how to improve it?

[Vinnygraphix]

Send me a DM to see if u can help me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Wth your current privacy settings, I can't DM you unless you follow me.

[LazerBean]

Yeesh, that's really bad. Join a club or something.

[Vinnygraphix]

I don’t have any clubs in New York

[LazerBean]

Are you telling me that in the entire city of new York, there is not a single place where people meet up to socialize in any way?

[Vinnygraphix]

I just find it weird to join a club with people I don’t know, and if there is I do not know because I never heard of those clubs.

[LazerBean]

Well it's better than whatever you've been doing. All I can say is you're going to have to get some sort of real life socializing going otherwise everyone will continue to think there's something bad wrong with you that has repelled all family and friends from you.

[Vinnygraphix]

They only ask me for favor when it’s convenient to them after that they just dub me

[Summeroflove]

It’s better not to date online

[JamesDiaz11]

Improve your appearances is all I can think of.

[Vinnygraphix]

Trust me im not a bad looking guy

[JamesDiaz11]

In that case, get a photographer to take your photos around the city or in a museum, also get a photo of you with some kind of animal (girls love that). In your bio put some sort of challenge in there, like a dare/ bet- I don't know one off the top of my head, but that should give something to start the conversation- I've seen many people not swipe on people they're interested in because their profile doesn't give them anything to start a conversation.

[Vinnygraphix]

I have designer clothes and don’t have time I work 2 jobs 18 hours a day 7 days a week

[JamesDiaz11]

Then I guess you have all the answers...

[Vinnygraphix]

But i have been on dating sites since 2006 till this day i have not landed a match or a date

[JamesDiaz11]

Why don't you tell me why you haven't gotten a match since you're so good looking and wear designer clothes... (eye roll)

[Vinnygraphix]

Don’t have a social life woman find me too much of a nice guy secondly my high school sweetheart passed away back in high school when we dated.

[JamesDiaz11]

Your high school sweetheart passing away has nothing to do with girls not matching with you (unless you put that in your bio). Being a nice guy isn't what stops you from getting matches, but it may stop you from getting a date after you match. Lastly, I had little to no social life and never had a problem getting matches on dating apps, getting dates, and getting a girlfriend. It's something else.

[Vinnygraphix]

I actually do not have photography money. And living in nyc don’t know where to find one

[Nikki1989]

By removing it and stop wasting your time.

[Vinnygraphix]

But its my only way of socializing

[Visionary7]

By deleting it

[barn_stormer]

this. online dating is useless. go to starbucks.

[Visionary7]

@barn_stormer exactly, and it’s taken him 7,500 matches to not realise this smh

[Vinnygraphix]

I don’t have a Starbucks where I live

[Vinnygraphix]

@barn_stormer how is it useless if a few of my cousins met their wives
On a dating site?