Why do I love single life so much but fear thought of getting married which might ruin freedom? Is it normal to love freedom more than a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[kylee2437]

Completely normal. Relationships are NOT the easy choice.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

It’s harder to learn to be happy alone

[kylee2437]

@captain-obvious if you feel that way then you should seek help. Relationships take lots of work , compromise etc that being alone doesn’t take.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

That’s really incorrect. Working on yourself and becoming comfortable and happy with yourself also takes an equal amount of work.

[kylee2437]

@captain-obvious you are correct but working on yourself does involve seeking therapy. Being uncomfortable with your own self is something that needs to be dissected

[Asker]

Normally guys are easy to get into relationships than girls so they would like relationships more than single life as they're always looking for someone to hook up with. But girls will take responsible decisions over their life taking more time and doesn't get into relationship for just being getting into it. So yes as you said it will take lot of time for girls to commit rather than guys because guys get into relationships as fast as possible and most of them also leaves a girl as soon as they achieve what they want from her. But girls are looking for a commitment for life whereas most of the guys will love and be in relationship with a girl without the intention of committing to her fully but just for the physical benefits that they want from her. But girls doesn't think that way, so they take time to get into relationships

[ChiTown33]

That's really not true asker. Men (good men) are just as committed to relationships as women are. Men and women just don't typically approach them from the same direction per our gender situation.

[Asker]

@ChiTown33 yeah, this relates to most people actually but yes, good guys exist too, who values commitment as much as girls do

[ChiTown33]

Yeah, but what I'm saying is the selection process between men and women are co. pletely different. Guys are generally expected ask women out not the other way around. Men have to ask out 10 women generally to get 1 yes (more women I'd he's on less attractive side). So guy KNOW it's more of a numbers game. Most women don't understand this about guys. We generally don't have the luxury of being very attracted to her first.

[Summeroflove]

It’s normal. Some people don’t want relationships or maybe you will in the future.


Nothing wrong with it. You do you. Long as you’re happy. It’s all good

[Lionman95]

Because you heard so many stories of horrible relationships could be. You don´t want to be a situation where you depend on other people.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Anonymous]

Because you're just not ready for relationship. There's nothing wrong with that. Just do guys a favor and stay out of relationships as long as you hold this feeling.