Is it strange that I don’t want to live a monogamous life?

[Anonymous]

I come from a divorced household. I’ve never seen real love growing up, relationships seem like a way to screw people over at the end of them, in the heterosexual community at least. I’ve had sex with 80-90 women, and don’t want to stop. I just want quick sex from different women, frequently.

[Oliverlogan263]

I can understand where you're coming from dude, with your parents splitting up and not having the best example of relationships as a kid. That stuff can definitely shape how you view love and commitment as you get older.

And yeah, in high school lots of guys think it's super cool to hook up with tons of chicks. Nothing wrong with enjoying your freedom and having fun.

But long term, just bouncing around from one random hookup to the next isn't super fulfilling either, you know? Like eventually don't you think you might want a deeper connection with someone? Not saying get married tomorrow or anything, but being fully alone all the time can get lonely.

Plus not all relationships have to end in divorce like your parents. Sometimes people do fall in love hard and stay together their whole lives. Might be worth keeping an open mind to that possibility too someday.

Anyway bro, you do you for now. Just think long and hard before knocking someone up or catching something cause you weren't careful. And don't shut the door completely on finding a cool girl you really vibe with eventually, ya never know. Keep it real!

[Keyboardkat]

That is very sad, and it seems that your background, coming from a split family like that, has ruined you. And I am afraid that you, with your closed mindset, may end up deeply hurting someone nice, by using her and abandoning her! Women have feelings, too, and that' s not a fair thing to do to someone! If you really cannot see yourself loving someone enough to spend your life with her and consider her your treasure, your blessing, and your soulmate, then your really need to consider some deep therapy! Don't blow this off! I am really serious. Damaged people end up damaging others. It can be a vicious repeating cycle. Interrupt that cycle by doing something about yourself! There is no shame in asking for help. The problem is recognizing yourself that you may need help.

[Abbycado]

No, it isn't strange. Some people prefer that.

[Tim2nice]

Not strange at all. Humans were never meant to be monogamous. Religion forced it on us

[Billlewis]

I don't think that's strange at all.

[ProbablyClueless]

No, that's not strange.

[Anonymous]

I think that