Am I weird for not wanting monogamy and dating multiple guys?

[Anonymous]

I never really understood why people always had to chase 1 person at once or get purely emotionally attached to one person. I'm seeing a guy right now, we have been intimate and spend overnights at each other's house once per week, but that doesn't mean I won't stop seeing other guys. I can spend all night at one guys house then go on a date with another guy the next day.

If I were married, I could completely dedicate my mind and soul into 1 person but then maybe have sex with a hottie at the side. No, it won't ruin my love for my spouse. It will just be purely for my own sexual gratification.

In the past, if I knew a player had a huge social circle of hot guy friends... I would deliberately flirt or befriend or even have sex with him so that I could eventually gain access to his hot male friends, where I could maybe try to find love there.

Cast an open net , as huge as possible to find what I want. Just never really understood why people only pursue 1 person at once. I pursue all the hot guys so that I can see which ones like me back.

[Rangers]

You're exactly the kind of girl guys should avoid at all costs, you don't value or respect anyone but yourself, especially not these guys or you'd want to build a connection with them and take it somewhere.

I hope you're able to fix whatever is making you act like this, but you'll have to do it alone. I would not invest time into helping you on that cause you don't even sound like you want to change.

Your life, your choice but when you're 50 in menopause with cancer and not one person wants to be around you on your deathbed, just know that you chose this

[Asker]

[Your life, your choice but when you're 50 in menopause with cancer and not one person wants to be around you on your deathbed, just know that you chose this]

sounds like you're just pissed.

[DonaldDarko]

Not weird so much as self centered and innately carnal. You know only jungle law.

[MontBlanc]

No, it doesn’t make you weird.

Some people prefer monogamy, others are comfortable with non monogamy.

The important part is honesty, consent, and alignment with the people involved.

Non monogamy is simply a relationship structure, not a fetish dynamic, and it only works when everyone understands and agrees to the boundaries.

[ohsheeT]

Well then I would have to say your a gay man wearing pink. If your doing all of the above to see if a man likes your back

[Asker]

im not a gay man wearing pink. im an actual woman.

[ohsheeT]

Interesting. So can I ask you a few questions
I'm just so very curious on everything you do. So if you're going out with a guy and let's say he can, please you really, really good. Do you think you'll still go out with other guys or\nYou just want to see with him. Or do you have to have other guys

[Asker]

@ohsheet

if i see a hot guy that I'm attracted to, I will cheat on him.

I have no reason to limit myself to 1 man

[ohsheeT]

Yes I kinda understand that to a point. So your saying it more about looks than anything else

[Asker]

yea im a very visually stimulated person and i truly believe that having good looks elevates sex to a level that is unreachable

[Asker]

physical attraction is very important

[ohsheeT]

That is very interesting.\nHave you ever had anybody make love to you? And I wait , can you dm me

[Asker]

@ohsheet

can you answer my other question

Am I overreacting or right to feel hurt he bailed on our plans? ↗

[ohsheeT]

Im not sure. I mean, would you or planning on doing something you get your high hopes up? And of course you've probably been thinking about it all day. It depends on why he bailed

[ohsheeT]

I do understand the attraction part and how that would work, I'm kind of the same way with energy. I mean, I can be 200 feet from you, and you're going to feel me. I'm standing 6 inches away from you. And then when making love\n And you become one See, that's what I'm curious about with you. Can you do that? Can you do you understand what i'm trying to say. I mean, have you ever had a body experiences after you finish sex? I mean for twenty to thirty minutes true out of body experiences

[ohsheeT]

And what's your question? What do you mean are you overreacting?\nNo , you have the right to be upset

[ohsheeT]

But could you give me please? I'd rather chat like that than like this. If possible

[Kabluie]

I'm polyamorous, I have two long-term girlfriends and a few friends with benefits, as I travel often for work so it kind of best of both worlds for everyone if they can see others when I'm not around. If everyone is on the same page, it's all good, with multiple lovers and relationships

[Berethor]

You are for the streets, men care about sexual loyalty the most, we don't care about love.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/oDaaAI6keSw

[Asker]

No woman would ever tell her man that she's cheating on him. Unless she never really cared about him in the first place.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Just stay out of marriages if you wanna hoe around, there's really no point, why cheat, just don't get into any commitment, there's really no point if you won't actually commit

[Asker]

I am committed. I would never leave them, no matter how much I cheat

[ChicoFromThe305]

That poor sap smh 😂

[DryGermanGuy]

Way to go! With three active orifices you can go a lot of rounds on the cock carousel. :-D

[Staximus]

Stupid guys kill each other over old town bicycles like you. Don't ever get married

[Staximus]

I wouldn't hose you with somebody else's dick

[Staximus]

No guy wants to stick face in a pussy that was getting pumped full of jizz the night before

[Asker]

Haha the thing is... you'll never know

[Anonymous]

Be honest and find a submissive guy that likes you to cuckold him. Don't lie and cheat. Honest cuckolding isn't cheating.

[Opinion Owner]

Include him by having him help you get dressed up to look sexy for your dates with other guys. Always have sex with him when you get home from your hook ups. Make him worship you. Playfully beat him up. Make him do your laundry for you. Have him hold you and cuddle with you and kiss you while you flirt with other guys online in front of him.

[MontBlanc]

Non monogamy and fetish dynamics aren’t the same thing.

Wanting to date more than 1 person doesn’t automatically mean someone is looking for a cuckold or humiliation scenario.

What you described is a very specific sexual fantasy.

Consenting adults are free to choose whatever dynamics they prefer, but it doesn’t actually address the question being asked.

Reducing a discussion about relationship preferences to a personal kink says far more about your perspective than it does about the person asking.

It might help to separate personal fantasies from the actual topic being discussed if the goal is to contribute meaningfully to the conversation.

[Opinion Owner]

@MontBlanc Non monogamy is for sluts and disloyal people. You are just morally corrupt and can't stand someone criticizing it. I'm sure you are a democrat and have had homosexual experiences too.

[MontBlanc]

I made a clear distinction between relationship structures and fetish dynamics.

Responding with insults and political assumptions doesn’t address the point.

I’ll leave it there.

[msc545]

Well, the good news about this is that, given what you're doing, you can actually send some sort of STD to multiple guys at once.

[zagor]

So you want a guy and don't want to be honest with him...

[Anonymous]

Yes. You're also disgusting.

[LC75LC71]

Nah, just slutty.

[Anonymous]

No, it’s not weird ho

[zombiewoof]

I get that, and i agree

[Sherloque95]

You sound like a fun girl

[slatyb]

No, you are not.