How to not be monogamous?

[Anonymous]

I have lots of women that wanna sleep with me but also sleep with other people... But once I hear about it I still go into monogamous mode. They are not cheating it's open relationship. Can you change your mindset for FWBs, and randoms? Or am I stuck in my lover boy attitude?

[Alli39]

I mean if your inclination is monogamy then just do that. I've done friends with benefits once and we were still exclusive. There are plenty of women out there with the same inclination/intentions so just don't worry about the rest.

[WhitneySnow]

I think you should be monogamous if that’s how you feel most comfortable

[Asker]

It is... But in this world it doesn't seem to be what women want anymore.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s not true. Most of my friends want guys who won’t cheat on them. It can’t be that different for older women.

[Asker]

I live in a party city, I think that's part of the problem

[WhitneySnow]

Probably

[Fireguy17]

Do what works for you.
Everyone is different.