How can I be brave enough to talk to my crush?

[katestar]

Why don't I be in love with him?

[LiamJHayden]

Just do it. At the worst, you'll know it isn't meant to be and can move on. At best, he might be into you, too.

[katestar]

Really?

[Summeroflove]

Just go for it but again if this is the same person you should let it to. It’s obvious he isn’t into you

[katestar]

He will be into me. I know it

[Summeroflove]

Okay….

[Summeroflove]

Well don’t ask stuff you don’t want the answer to then

[katestar]

Whatever you say. I'm okay with this.

[LemiaOfThunder]

I dont think she understands the behaviour she is exbhitting is stalkerish and needs to stop.

[katestar]

I saw this

[Summeroflove]

@LemiaOfThunder yeah it’s very concerning to me too

[andre-48]

@Summeroflove and @LemiaOfThunder it is the same person. I've reported all her questions for the reason of spamming on here

[Summeroflove]

@andre-48 I ain’t reported her. But she definitely asks repeated questions. She asks the same question 1000 times and 1000 different ways. I have answered many times and she just gets argumentative

[Summeroflove]

She seems like a nice person but. It’s every single day

[andre-48]

It was refreshing when she disappeared off here for a few days. The questions she asks can't be answered by us. They don't make sense at all

[Summeroflove]

@andre-48 she asks the question different ways to get different answers. She said she reached out and has not heard back.

If someone isn’t into you. You can’t force them to be. Better to find someone who is.

[andre-48]

He is an actor. Actors date their own people anyway not randoms off the street

[LemiaOfThunder]

I started to be friendly towards but there is so much I can stand. Saying I won't move on in my books counts as stalking. May its time for the mods of @GirlsAskGuys to speak to her if not freeze her account. Cos I dont think she understands.

[andre-48]

@LemiaOfThunder just start reporting all her questions as spamming/trolling. That is what I've been doing. She threatened me on here saying I'm going to regret it 😂

[Summeroflove]

@andre-48 yeah I have seen some people be with people way out of their league. I told her to take a chance and see what happens. Because in life you have to take a chance sometimes.

But when someone isn’t interested. They’re just flat not interested.

[Summeroflove]

@LemiaOfThunder yeah I know. Repeated questions are violations. But that’s up to the mods and admin what they do

[Summeroflove]

@andre-48 she really shouldn’t be making threats. Lol

[katestar]

I'm Leaving. Forever. If I'm a threat to you all.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Your a treat to your own safety if you can't see that your behaviour its a bit creepy.

[Summeroflove]

You’re not a threat to us. It’s just because you keep asking the same questions and getting angry when we answer.

[Summeroflove]

@LemiaOfThunder yeah it is. Honestly me personally I just want her to see that. She asks questions and people want to get angry for honestly answering.

It’s why I’m so snarky and sometime to folks who don’t deserve it unfortunately. But just because so many people are like this

[LemiaOfThunder]

The problem is, This guy has no clue to her existence besides they went to school together. Every question since the account began has been about him and its creepy.

[Summeroflove]

@LemiaOfThunder yes I know she really needs to move on. She isn’t going to force him to love her

[katestar]

I know that. I agree with you. But I'm not comfortable with moving on.

[LemiaOfThunder]

You need to move on, You can't force him into loving you. You are only hurting yourself.

[katestar]

No. I'm not going to move on. I'm sorry. But I'm not comfortable with it anymore. I'm handling it. If you don't like it. I'll leave forever.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Then your going to jail then and have the title as stalker on your record for life meaning you probly die a virgin.

[katestar]

😡😡😡😡😡😡

[LemiaOfThunder]

If you dont like the truth why ask for our opioions?

[katestar]

I don't want to do this..

[Summeroflove]

Then stop asking the question if you don’t really want answers. If you already made your mind up. Don’t bother asking

[Summeroflove]

@LemiaOfThunder yeah and this is going to be on her.

[Summeroflove]

@LemiaOfThunder yeah I know. Seems to be the theme on this site. People ask questions they don’t want the answer to.

When you don’t tell them what they want to hear. They flip shit

[Anonymous]

What about this person makes you unable to move on because people are getting tired of trying to help.

[katestar]

That's it. I've admitted that I'm a stalker Virgin.

[Reece12345]

Just ask him a casual question whenever the opportunity presents itself. Like how were your holidays, for example.

[katestar]

I'll do that. But I'm scared to talk to him. When do I get to talk to him?

[Reece12345]

I'm not sure what the circumstances are. Do you work with him, or go to school with him? It all depends first on the daily circumstances where you might run into each other.

[katestar]

Um. We grew up together as teenagers. We met through a friend of his

[Reece12345]

Do you ever encounter him by chance? You could try to just hang out in a place that you know he'll be and then just start a casual conversation first, as if this is a chance run-in.

[katestar]

Well. No. I haven't tried it yet. But I'll try.

[katestar]

How come we don't talk?

[Reece12345]

It's really hard to break the ice for so many people. Do you guys share any common interests?

[katestar]

We like thriller/horror movies.

[Reece12345]

There you go! Why not ask him if he's like to see a film? Then you can start a casual conversation and get into what interests him and take it from there?
Don't get me wrong, it's hard to make a first move but asking to see a movie is a good opening.

[katestar]

And we like marvel movies.

[Reece12345]

Omg good taste! You should totally ask him if he'd be down for seeing one. Between thrillers/horrer/MC films there must be something out there.
I think you should go for it. Most guys would be flattered if a girl asked them out to a film. You'd have so much time to talk to him.

[katestar]

Because he's a actor.

[Reece12345]

Wow! So maybe ask him what it's like to act? So many possible questions to get him taking!

[LemiaOfThunder]

Ok I'm Bored of this know... I am going to brutally honest with you... Your living a fever dream that this guy wants you. You so much deliem that you want him to break your virginity. Its time to move on and look for love elsewhere.

[katestar]

I won't move on.

[LemiaOfThunder]

You need too you'll be arrested for stalking.

[katestar]

I'm not a stalker. I'm not moving on.

[LemiaOfThunder]

If he doesn't know you or is not in contact with you, its known as stalking and is arrestable offence.

[katestar]

It's not

[LemiaOfThunder]

Dont say I didn't warn you.

[katestar]

Love is not a crime

[katestar]

I'm not going to move on. If I'm not ready to move on.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Stalking is tho

[katestar]

I'm not a stalker.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Yes you are

[katestar]

Don't say that to me. It hurts me too much.

[LemiaOfThunder]

You are obessed stalker. You need to see your behavior is creepy and needs to stop

[katestar]

No. I can't do that. I'm not a stalker. Don't say that to me

[LemiaOfThunder]

Y. O. U ARE STALKER, HE'LL NEVER LOVE YOU STOP POSTING THE SAME QUESTION AND MOVE ON

[katestar]

Stop saying that to me.

[Keyboardkat]

I don't understand. If you are not in love with him, then why is he your crush?

[katestar]

I'm in love with him.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Go for broke

take a shot in the dark

or start drinking lmao

[Anonymous]

I mean you are 33... figure it out

[katestar]

Okay. I'll figure it out.