A cute way to ask out a new coworker?

[Anonymous]

I (f) need a cute but ballsy way to ask out a coworker (m, 26). I want it to stand out more than "hey let's grab drinks"

Yes I know don't date in the work place. But that's not my question. And please don't say "just do it" looking for ideas here.

Thanks 💕

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I'm not staying with the company much longer. So HR isn't an issue.

[Rosexøxø]

“Hey let’s clutch some beverages.”

”hey let’s ransack a bar.”

”hey let’s snatch some fluid. Preferably acidic in the pH scale, but not deathly so.”

lol all jokes 😂👐, but why not consider them while you’re at it.

Real options include:

• (clever pick up lines)
• (clever candy cards, where you use candies or the names of the candies, to form the sentences)

Ouuu a notecard in a balloon? 🎈 With some added glitter…

or confetti to be less feminine? 🎉

Scent the card with your favorite perfume 😉😏 so he’ll take a deep wiff of you, while he reads the “mvp invite 👐😉”

make him think it’s a “private meetinggg” top notch lol 😄

So overall:

I think a nice ballon, with scented invite on the card andddd maybe a fortune cookie with the pick up line.🥠

I guess you could both eat chinese then, on the first date, if he accepts. 👀👐🍱🍣🫕🍛🍙

Dang now I wanna do this 😂.

• Make a job related invite.
• Consider anything he’s fond of and make an invite around that. (This option would be the most gutsy because it’d.. yes, take a lot of heart) lol the higher the climb, the harder the fall, if it should happen. 😵

The others seem safest, yet still gutsy than the average verbal invite.

Consider everything you can!

Best to you!

[Stevefiveo]

Those are all good ideas. I wouldn't overthink it. Guys don't worry about how things get started. I had a coworker tell me she made all of these "extra cookies" and she didn't know what to do. Gee, do you like cookies? Can you come over to my house after work and pick them up? When I got there, she was in a little black dress and seduced me at the door.

[Rosexøxø]

@Stevefiveo yeah hook up culture /:

She can just resort to:

“Hey- Smash or pass.”

I’m gonna go make a fake invite for myself I swear 😆

[Stevefiveo]

Hey whatever style works for her.

[Rosexøxø]

@Stevefiveo I don’t mind guys being sexual and I love sex as well, but it’s kind of sad guys nowadays won’t even try to be 2% romantic on a full moon or something.

That’s why I said I’d make myself one because that’s what seems the most logical. I agree with you, it’s definitely up to her. She can choose based on what she wants or choose based on what she’d like.

She may want sex, so choosing a short, sexual pick up line would do best.

She may want to date, so she could go with what he likes or go with something she likes and make it her style.

From the looks of the question, she’s pretty sure in the ‘what,’ she wants.

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, although if women don't make it obvious, I would just think she is being friendly. Usually every guy thinks every girl wants them but I'm just the opposite. I like she just wants to be friends unless it becomes really obvious. Lol

[swettannie]

want to do some shopping with me? i'll let you decide what you want me to wear for you

[spartan55]

Cute but ballsy...🙄... hard to believe a girl would overthink something so innocuous. This isn't about HOW you ask him out, just that you do it.

[joeldalton]

don’t shit where you eat.

[Asker]

I have about a month left with company...