So I (21m) work in a kitchen and a few months ago a girl (19f) started there. I always thought she was pretty but that was it really.
Anyway one night a bunch of us from work went out and me and her spent the whole night together and started making out.
Then again another night me her and another guy were going to go out after work and chill, we finished an hour before him so went and started drinking, he said he would message when he was done but forgot and thought we left so just went home. We ended up spending about 2 hours just making out and feeling each other up. At one point she made a joke about me loving her and then asked me if I liked her, I said yeah and asked her the same and she said yeah she wouldn’t be out with me if she didn’t. We held hands and walked back to where she was getting a cab and we’re just making out again while waiting.
But the problem is she’s quite awkward with me when not drunk at work, like she won’t initiate anything but if I talk to her she’s pretty receptive.
Normally that would be a sign to me that she’s not interested but on one of the nights when drunk she told me she has social anxiety and never initiates because of it, that topic came up because I made a joke about how she was the one who kissed me first the first night we made out so she was like no way I would’ve I never etc.
I’m not sure what to do in this situation because I have started to like this girl a fair bit and want to go further. I was gonna ask her out but one coworker she is good friends with said she’ll probably get nervous and say no unless I get to know her a bit more.
How would any of you guys handle this situation because I’m clueless here as I don’t want her to feel pressured if she does like me and then again I’m not even 100% sure.
Sorry if my writing is a mess I’m awful at putting my thoughts into words lol
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