Why would a man who claimed interest in me tell mutual friends that I’m a gold digger?

[KathrynTaylor]

I’m poor but I wear nice clothes and own nice things that I use my own money to buy. I save up for them. What’s wrong with having good manners, being a lady and enjoying nice things? He asked through mutual friends what my inheritance is worth and about my education.

[Summeroflove]

I have no idea. You know in your heart who you are. If you’re buying your own shit and not demanding things from men. You’re not a gold digger.


Some people are just like that and many times it’s to deflect their own problems.

[DavidRaul]

Beleive me you are not poor. Why do you put up with such a**holes. Look for a man who doesn't care about your net worth rather than for a person you are.

[MrCommodore]

Sounds like he isn't a guy you should date, guys who focus on your inheritance or financial value etc aren't likely to be good partners.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe he's trying to keep the friend out of the competition.

[KathrynTaylor]

They were trying to set me up with him so he sent them to me with questions about my inheritance and schooling.

[Tracker1958]

Are you a gold digger? Have you asked him for money?

[KathrynTaylor]

Never. He’s rich but he was always the one mooching off me.

[Tracker1958]

Ooooookay

[KathrynTaylor]

It’s truth. We were friends and I was always treating him to everything, because I saw what I wanted to see.

[KathrynTaylor]

But I do like nice things, but I buy them myself.

[Tracker1958]

So, he's the gold digger. MY MAN.

[Tracker1958]

Great, so why do you want a man? You looking for a pet?

[KathrynTaylor]

A boyfriend.. I guess I hoped he’d change. Stupid me lol

[Tracker1958]

If your looking for a pet to take in, go to the homeless shelter, they have all kind of men to choose from. Take food and you will get a man to come home with you. Get him his shots before bringing him home.

[KathrynTaylor]

Quite true

[Andres77]

That was underhanded and mean. I hope he's out of your life. Sorry that happened.

[Dinklex3]

Confront him and ask yourself.

[QuietVerbena]

Jealous cause you said no