Does no always mean no when asking out a girl?

[Anonymous]

Say, I have asked a girl out and she said no. Should I chase after her or let it go?

Stop chasing her

It really depends the way she said it

She just wants to play with you, continue to flirt

None of the options above

[Fryday_Knight]

It really depends on how she delivers the word. My date is going great. I'm holding her and my hands are going lower and lower, she takes me hands and guides them back to her hips instead, saying no, but she's blushing and smiling all the way through. That doesn't mean no, that's a good date right there.

But if it's a cold, short, serious or maybe a polite no. It's probably going to stay no.

[Asker]

So you suggest watching her body language?

[Fryday_Knight]

You've got to watch Everything. With everyone. Always.

[Asker]

What if I'm bad at understanding humans?

[Fryday_Knight]

Learn. And learn quick.

[Summeroflove]

Leave the woman ALONE. If someone straight up tells you no. It means no.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Not worth it buddy. Once a girl says no, you get the heck out of there. If the no was a rhetorical one, she will contact you. But not worth the risk chasing after her.

[Asker]

Wouldn't she be upset if it was rhetorical?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

You can act dumb for the time being. Later explain it to her.

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

Go date someone else... if she approaches you then, tell her to fuck off...
Honestly, do t waste your time playing along with selfish games when you can be happy with someone else

[DarkWinterNights]

No means no. Try your best to lose interest in her. Either she really meant it and continued pressure will annoy or anger her or she likes playing games. Neither of which is good news for you.

[genericname85]

i would stop. not to "respect her no" or anything. but just to not waste my own time on something that's pointless.

[Asker]

why is it pointless?

[genericname85]

well why would she say no if she was interested in you? you're wasting yout time if you're pursuing someone who doesn't wanna be with you.

[RavVid]

Probably hard to pick if she is playing hard to get or being honest. If you do chase do it in a jocular way.

[slatyb]

Either she isn't interested or she's playing some game. Either way I'm not asking again.

[Anonymous]

If "no" does mean no, you're a creep who was harassing her.

If "no" doesn't mean no, it's a red flag. She likes to play games and that isn't going to change.

No girl is worth chasing.

[Asker]

So you say I should get the hell out if she says no?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes sir

[bolverk]

If she says 'No' then take it at face value and move on, there are more fish in the sea.

[LiamJHayden]

Smile, say thanks, and walk away. If she is playing she'll chase you. If not, go ask another.

[Anonymous]

Not always. But any woman that makes you dance for her isn't worth having. If she says no, move on to a woman that deserves you.