Why can’t I find the same kind of men as my friends?

My friends and social circle are all the same age, interests, similar careers, etc but I can’t find the same quality of men as them. They are dating every girl’s dream: successful, smart, kind, well educated, tall, athletic, funny. Their boyfriends also cook for them (!), make a big effort to take their girl out on cute dates, and are just genuine good guys who are super loyal and hardly even glance at other girls. They don’t ask to kiss after the first date or sex within the first 3 dates like actually amazing guys that are soo sweet

I’m just as attractive physically and personality wise so I’m confused why I don’t attract these guys. Not to sound conceited but I know I have a good body and even my friends say that they’re shocked I don’t get asked out every day and strangers ask me why I’m single!

To be clear these guys approach my friends like they chat them up. My friends never had to approach these guys. All they did was sit there and look pretty and the guys flock to them

I smile at guys that I think are hot and try to see if they fit the qualities I described but clearly this is not working.

What can I do to get approached by these guys myself? Or where can I meet more of this type of men because the guys that approach me are just not it lol

Why can’t I find the same kind of men as my friends?
Why can’t I find the same kind of men as my friends?
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