Basically with my boyfriend every fight or anything is my fault. I cause everything. I can count on one hand the times he’s ever said sorry actually I’m sure it’s only been like twice over three years and I’ve apologised to him so many times I can’t even count.
Most of our fights consist of him getting annoyed at me for small things. Well in my opinion small things. I rarely ever get annoyed at him. One recent fight we were texting and he didn’t understand my text he said it didn’t make sense. I tried to reword it and he still didn’t get it, He said I then ruined the conversation and I always piss him off by doing that.
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This is toxic. Leave. How long have you been together? Are you guys the same age?
3 years. Yeah he’s like a year older than me we’re 27
Is he happy? Is there kids involved? Are YOU happy? Has he ever cheated or anything? It’s just kind of giving me narcissistic vibes, so that’s why I’m asking all these questions!
Is it always the same fights? Do they constantly reoccur?
He seems happy most of the time. No kids and no cheating. Narcissistic vibes from me or him? It’s always the same kinda fights like I do something non intentionally and he gets annoyed, I never do anything to annoy him on purpose
You two are not suited for each other. This crap only gets worse over time.
It’s only recently it’s gotten worse but he says we only fight because of me even though I try to keep calm and keep the piece he gets angry and then we end up being annoyed at each other for a week every time , every fight
Like can one person in relationship really be at fault all the time? Like I try not to piss him but I still do somehow, it’s knocking my confidence
Yes, one person can be at fault and the other person can reach a breaking point.