Is it normal to fight in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’m not a confrontational person so when she would hit me or call me names I wouldn’t respond back then on some occasions she would call me a bitch

[Little_Bumblebee]

Not like how you're describing it. Especially if she's hitting you, and what, calling you names? That's so unhealthy.
I wouldn't stay in something like that.

[Asker]

youtube.com/shorts/2mkzBmFPcQc?si=m6B_0UkJ7UibFTVn I seen this clip on YouTube she would do this to me a lot

[laly520]

she is being abusive n harming u

thats not ok at all

u need to move on n end it

[Asker]

youtube.com/shorts/2mkzBmFPcQc?si=m6B_0UkJ7UibFTVn This is something that she would frequently do

[laly520]

yeah move on
thats a very toxic person

[slatyb]

No, that is not normal. If you are still with her, leave. Then get some counseling and figure out why you think this is normal. It's not.

[Asker]

I have no barometer of what a normal relationship is because I never had one previously before this

[slatyb]

And presumably your parents didn't either or you would know. Seriously, dump her before she ruins your life, and get some counseling to build your self esteem and erect some boundaries. I've been there, and didn't get counseling until we were divorcing. Get out NOW.

[SolitarySolace]

Yeah, dump her and get counseling so that you can just repeat the process with the next woman you meet 😁👍🏻

[jahaims]

Fighting isn't healthy. Having a conversation about a disagreement is different than fighting.

[SolitarySolace]

You really gonna put up with that shit?