Anyone ever have a fling turn into a relationship?

[Smc08]

The chances are rare. Some would even say it’s impossible. What’s your take?

No. It goes against the friends with benefits code

No. But I wish it would change

It happened. But it still didn’t work out.

Yes. It ended up being kind of like the movie.

Other.

[DaveJord]

Nope, I had a few flings, most were only for week or so... but I have dates women flung with them, knowing there was no real chance for a serious relationship... but it was fun and we enjoyed it for as long as it lasted. It kind of cheapens it to be like this is only a friends with benefits situation... takes some of the fun out of it.

Maybe it could have built into more, but circumstance never would have allowed that to happen.

[loveslongnails]

Yes, and it was fun.

[ZoeyMercer]

I’ve seen it happen but usually they end up together and they could’ve gotten someone better if they didn’t sleep together so early on

[Kelly6]

Yes it happened with me and then we married.

now we have kids, and love each other

[Smc08]

Nice!

[Kelly6]

Thanks for Mho

[coachTanthony]

No but the ones I do know about turned into very bad relationships because they both loved sex not each other.

[Guy13]

Not that I know as one gets bored snd body hops to back-up Plan chasing that “Experience” Buzz. Not a way to procure a man.

[Anonymous]

I’ve looked into it. But NO.

Why? Because you both agreed to become eachother’s blow-up dolls. You’re his s—x toy and he’s yours. There’s no respect there. You didn’t start that relationship off with at least just friends, dating and hang out. You given him the ultimate prize and he didn’t have to do anything.

It’s sad, but you’ve put yourself in that position alone. I’ve done it too, and I shouldn’t expect him to fall deep in love, when I haven’t given him any challenge.

If you have friends with benefits you need to be clear with yourself that he’s just a D! LD0. And that you can exit when you feel like it. Do you catch feeling for a D! LDO? NO RIGHT?

If you want to lure a guy in and make him crazy for you, you have to be mysterious, and not give your cookies and secrets off the bat. That shows lack of maturity and self control.

But if you already gave him 4$$, forget it. In his mind you’re a blow-up-doll with no brain or thoughts. He sees you as a good time and nothing more. He thinks you’re doing friends with benefits with everyone else that had a D-K. He thinks you have no self-respect. Cause what if he was a Grape-ist or a P3D0 , MU—ERER.

You still went and gave him 4$$, quickly. So what does that say about you.
Time for leave the friends with benefits, and find someone new. Start over. But don’t think that this friends with benefits is gonna work out. You already ruined it. Cause the more you sleep with him, the more he dreams about that girl that is making it a challenge. Trust me 😑 he ain’t dreaming about you. You made it easy. You were easy.

[Opinion Owner]

You were like watching P—RN. You were easy and cheap.

[Smc08]

That’s deep. lol. I just hope your not talking about me. I’m just doing questions. Don’t shoot.

[MountAverage]

Huh? Isn't that how most relationships start? Or am I misunderstanding the question?

[Smc08]

I wish. If more people in the world did we wouldn’t need hinge and other dating sites.

[MountAverage]

Then I must misunderstand something here. So, how do most relationships start?

[Smc08]

I don’t know anymore. 😂 I really have no idea. Things have changed so much. People used to get to know each other first. But it usually doesn’t happen like that because one or both people are stuck on rules. So I don't know it’s crazy. It depends on what your rules are.

[Smc08]

When I was younger the 2 and 3 month rule was common. Now the rule changed. It’s 2 or 3 months of banging first. Then you decide.

[MountAverage]

Most relationships start off by two people starting to hook up and hang out until they decide to go exclusive.

[MountAverage]

And it's been like that for, like, forever.

[ginsbergjen710]

You meet people in person, start talking and let that natural chemistry draw you closer.
Honestly tho everyone we date comes down to one thing: Our surroundings (a. k. a. who we interact with and end up with)!

[misogynistic_pig]

No, that's for prostitutes.

[KrakenAttackin]

You mean start dating a fuck buddy?

[Smc08]

That’s exactly what I mean.

[KrakenAttackin]

No man respects a woman he can just bang whenever.

[ginsbergjen710]

We women don't respect men who hop into bed with you... can't trust a man like that because he's always gonna be after 1 thing even while committed to you

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

I have before. Ended after a year.

[Smc08]

Would you do it again?

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Yes I would

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Has it ever happened to you?

[Smc08]

No. But I would be open minded.

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

Nice. May I dm you?

[Anonymous]

It should turn into a relationship

[Anonymous]

I don't do casual.

[headphonekim]

yes and it lasted for like a week. LoL