So there is this girl at my workplace, That came a few months ago.
Since the moment she arrived we had great a connection.
We had our inner jokes, personal conversations sometimes about really nothing and we teased each other from time to time.
Sometimes we checked up on each other.
Plus during the day we had a lot of eye contact and smiles exchanges.
Then it became more intense and our talks became more flirtatious from both sides and there was a lot of touch that actually started from her side.
Other than that there were a lot of messages including photos memes and audio
- but here something was different she took time to answer. But that was a problem she had with everyone even with her girl friends if she answered at all.
At the office people started to tease us her girlfriends always asked if we are a couple already or just teased us and smiled at us and the guys also teasd us.
From my side i was very interested and she attracted me like a magnet In every aspect.
But I wasn't ready for a relationship or something else at the moment.
From her side I don't know what she were thinking but she told me that she is not ready for a relationship right now it came up in a conversation.
from her teasing I could tell she knows I am attracted to her.
The problem is that suddenly one week she became cold and distant and it felt like she is avoiding me.
And for the rest of the office peoples she became much more friendly.
For as much as I know I didn't do anything wrong and I don't know if something happened to her.
Messages became less frequent there was no eye contact no occasional smiles or glances
Everything just disappeared.
I tried to give her time, I didn't ignored her back or something (but sometimes it felt like I was too cold).
Suddenly she sent a message and we talked a little and now we are talking but it still isn't the same as before there is no glances talks are much shorter and less frequent and no occasional smiles.
Any advices?
