How do I be Friends with my crush (Highschool 14M) ?

[Chomhulal]

Hi! I started to feel attraction towards my old classmate (she's still in my class for about 6 years) and I am not her friend or anywhere near that and I want to be her friend first then think about other stuff. I am in Highschool and my crush is like a little less then very good in studies and I am above - above average and she's a bit popular and I am not much. She has more attitude then many of my classmates and I never pointlessly talked to her fearing her attitude but she's nice if someone asks her notebook or her help in a sum or smth. We clearly don't have any mutual friend because I am not much popular in girls and My friends are with least popularity in class and they are average in studies.

Please people help me to at least befriend her. I am from India so suggestions from India would be more relevant but I will read all suggestions u people put ! Thank you!

[cookiecrusher]

Never become a friend with a crush.

Watching her with another dude is going to hurt like a motherfucker.

Ask her out.

Get her number from somebody and call, don't text.

Slide a note in her purse/bag/hand/table etc "hey, you look lovely in that dress" and have and your first name and last name initials.

Or walk up to her if you can and ask her for icecream, to atv riding or somewhere fun. Movies are not so good.

Do something, do clearly indicate a sexual interest.

Being a friend is doing all the approaching work and just putting yourself in the friendzone.

Good luck dude and don't waste any time.

[Twalli]

Just approach her and start talking to her. Who knows, maybe she wants to talk to you. You won't know until you try. My dad remembers a girl he went to school with and was somewhat like you with a popular girl. She mentioned years later that she had a huge crush on him all through high school, and he had no idea. I'm from the US so social interactions are different here, but I don't think just talking to another person varies drastically between countries, especially if you just are seeking friendship.

[Chomhulal]

I can't bcoz this much time isn't given in school and our seats are on different rows.

[PrettyPriya]

Hello! Are there any school activities that you both enjoy? Do you share any classes together? Does she talk with you at all? A little bit of context of the situation would help me give some good advice! 😊

[Chomhulal]

Sadly our school currently stopped all activities except Games , Computer Lab and Library. Yea if I ask that if u have this sum then she does tell. Also her friends... One of them is a girl who impresses most teacher in minutes and is very ill mannered, she is friends with most dirty people of school. Other friends of her doesn't bother me. Also I was having double thoughts on having her as my crush but I really want to be friends at least. Also she's one of the few girls from school to go to the morning assembly at stage.

[PrettyPriya]

@Chomhulal Thank you for the MHO.

Sadly, the pandemic has halted a lot of activities. Have you tried to talk to your crush at all?

[Chomhulal]

Yeah I sometimes ask her for some maths sums or smth and today I msged her on whatsapp and I am worried if she bro zones me and U r from India so u can understand so please can u check my profile where I asked another question about getting brozoned?

[PrettyPriya]

Yes, I’m from India. Let me take a look at your profile.

[Chomhulal]

@PrettyPriya hi, I want to tell that I don't know what i am feeling but I feel excited i guess thats the closest thing that this feeling relates to. Oftentimes I just stare at a wall and my heart says I just want her ! I don't know what is happening to me... I am deeply fallen for her and I dont know what to say...

[Avicenna]

I don’t see a problem here unless you can’t treat her as just a friend

[scott04sa22]

try to find after school activities with her or ask her for help with your homework. also as a tip dont say the word " ask " around the girls lol

[In_Trance]

You just need to start talking to her and go from there