Do women really need any skill to attract a man?

[Anonymous]

I personally don't think they do

[dragoblack]

Pfft, no.
Be straight forward with us, be hygienic, have a healthy mindset, don't be a slob, and don't be a toxic individual. Just basic shite.
If we get along and accept who we are as people, then add some obvious flirting and teasing then there you go.

[suzzieQ]

Lol well it may not take skill to attract you, but it certainly does for some.

[Asker]

@suzzieQ Men and women aren't the same kid. Men aren't going to put women through test

[FilmGuy93]

They need to have basic social skills and be able to act like they actually to be having sex with us, but nothing particularly difficult, no.

[Justin1019]

That's literally all women can do. SEX! They can't cook or take care of their men.

That's why many men have no respect for women by humping women, cheating on women, dumping women, and forgetting about women.

[Rosexøxø]

Agreed. Men only prefer the cûm in the presence of ladies.

Some have explored other options.

Men don’t really ask for help in anything else.

[Rosexøxø]

After a boy becomes a man, emotionally he doesn’t need women. He wouldn’t need his mom to hug him when life got tough, so pretty much he’d be himself, his dick, and his bros.

[Haha456]

If you think that is the case, it likely means you never leave your house.

Yes, you do need skill to attract a man. Especially if he is a man with a lot of options.

It doesn't take skill to attract a loser though. Losers just accept anything they can get because they don't have options.

[Asker]

No you don't. Women dont approach or initiate thus meaning men have to learn and fail to get better with women. Women just pick and choose. I ask the questions, you respond and at tge end its your call if i get a yes or no

[Haha456]

you don't get a relationship by approaching. you just think that way because you don't have a social life and leave your house. Vast majority of men dont approach women either. Don't think it is a common thing.

[Haha456]

you need charisma along with looks and a decent life / job in order to get a high value man with options. A man who works a minimum wage job, is unkept, gruff, uneducated , sleeps around is a low value man.

[Asker]

In general men have to approach and make things happen. Most relationships in GENERAL were started because the man approached the woman. Men must create their value, women must protect the inherent value they have

[Haha456]

Most relationships start with being friends or acquaintances or being mutual friends. Not many relationships start by approaching

[Haha456]

I'm willing to bet you've never approached a woman.

[Haha456]

do you that vast majority of married couples meet through mutual friends and hobby clubs?

[Haha456]

do you realize that vast majority of married couples meet through mutual friends and hobby clubs?

[Asker]

a lot of guys approach and get rejected a lot until they learn how to become more attractive. Men have to initiate if they want something to happen. And I've been rejected a lot but one did say yes after failing over and over again while working on my value at the same until it paid off

[Haha456]

Vast majority of men do not initiate. Guys get rejected a lot because they tend to approach girls who are out of their league. why would a girl care about getting your number if she already had 20 guys offering her their number over the past week? what makes you special?

[Asker]

Men approach all kinds of women. It's actually Women dont want to date men on their level. Men are okay with average women but average women dont want them. And what makes me special is that i improved my appearence and got fit through dieting and exercising while and financially could afford to take her out and do things. But a lot of other men weren't above average. They weren't ugly but just average. You have to be more than average now

[Normazoid]

You know, if the man with a lot of options isn't pursuing you... you might be a low quality catch.

[Haha456]

@Normazoid

men with a lot of options do not need to pursue. they already have plenty of women pursuing them. you don't know this because you never leave the house.

[Haha456]

@Asker

Men don't approach all kinds of women. You just say this cuz you never leave the house.

this entire website is filled with bitter angry guys who have no social lives, do not date, can't get any woman. And your lack of life / dating experience really shows here.

[Normazoid]

LOL how could you give such a sheltered, divorced-from-reality take and accuse ME of never leaving the house?
High value men with plenty of options will usually only pick from their options for sport. This is a fact... a fling here, a short-term relationship there... but the woman he wifes down with is almost always going to be a 10. And I don't mean what women think is a 10, I mean the kind of woman that has numerous high quality men interested in them.

This is the logical flaw in your argument; you're saying the men who will settle for anything are losers.

If they're losers, what are the women who have to work their asses off just so a high value man will notice them? Becuase believe me, if you're really attractive, those men will notice.

[Asker]

@_Soren_ Bruh men and women aren't the same

[Tomisworthless]

Agreed im a loser but still yet to get anything

[littlered14]

I feel like we do in this day and age. After you are past age 24, I feel like your body changes and you do have to work a but more for it but, even if you do take care of yourself, it feels like playing a game of chance more often than not unless you spend a lot of time hanging with your girls in bars... but, that's coming from the perspective of a nerdy little introvert so...

[Asker]

Always remember this saying "Men must create their value, women most protect their inherent value"

[Asker]

Typos 🙄

[littlered14]

I love that. Thank you

[Pegases]

It depends on the type of man they are trying to attract. Men without experience, or options, are easily impressed by any attention from women. When women know they have competition, they need more than just sex appeal, especially today because most women are pretty much naked most of the time.

[ODC2112]

Generally not. The average man is stupid. He selects a woman by looking at her exterior. Kind of like him buying a car for bodyshop and then finding out he's a lemon with no engine.
Therefore, a woman does not need skills to find a man, as long as they are attractive.

However if the woman wants a man worth anything, she must have some skills too. In addition to taking care of your appearance, of course.

[LadyKitty]

Yes and No.

Yes but this applies if they have very specific expectations from that sort of guy.

No applies in the situation of meeting guys that are desperate.

[TenderFantasy]

No, they just need what's in between their legs most of the time, their health (very important), their youth (yeah unfortunately) and a face that's attractive to the person they are trying to attract! =)

[Red-Blaze]

Yes if its a man that know him self and got him self some self worth
Else no.. not to get the attantion, yes to keep it to any amount of time

[Red-Blaze]

Ok now seen the video
Well small thing a life is not two words, just because you hook a fish don't make them your till you pull them in, and yes that needs skills
Getting attention is not getting much then a moment in there spot light

[Asker]

English is not your first language is it

[magiusX26]

asker, you are pretty hostile to people who do not share your personal opinion. care to explain why?

[Red-Blaze]

Nop not at all my first language thanks for noticing :)

[Anonymous]

Yes they do. To attract a man they want that is. You can see that since women very rarely ask men out. I think probably half of the women never did that. And you know why? Social skills my boy. And these women either don't have it or they don't have the ovaries to ask men out.

And if they target only the top 20% of men, then the requirement is even much higher than a beautiful body and face.

[Ligerzzero]

Absolutely not. The most successful ones are the ones who are slender, or gym rats who have that athletic build, and can get men by just the body.

[RolandCuthbert]

If they want to attract the right men, they had better figure out those skills. Because most advice is to just lay around and look pretty.

Good grief.

[Truthatanycost]

Women need to have value to attract a man... but they need only exist... to attract a simp.

[Asker]

But we aren't going to put them through challenges just to see if she's the one. We lead the conversation and they just pick

[Truthatanycost]

No. When you know your value, leading and having them pick isn't enough. You qualify them, ascertain their past, potential future, morals, attitude, how they treat others and much more before deciding whether they have the privilege of being in your life or not. When a man is not on his purpose, doesn't know his value, and views women as qualifying simply because she's attractive or female, then he will lead the conversation and she will pick...

[UniquelyBasic]

Probably to just look cute and cook but that may have more to do with men not having higher standards for women.

[Anonymous]

To attract no, because straight men are by default attracted to every woman they find physically appealing. But to get him/keep him, definitily.

[magiusX26]

a good quality man (who knows his worth), yes they actually do.

[Asker]

Do you put women through shit test and mind games?

[magiusX26]

nope. but when i gave a damn about dating i used criteria just as we all do. and i just straight up asked questions to get as much of that information as possible. its called being an adult and having requirements and standards. as for the term you used, skill, that just means "not some lazy bump on a log" or in other words, does she at least know how to insert criteria such as manage money, do basic math, read and write, spell, manage other resources, live with someone else (and not be a dick/asshole/shitty person) some basic sanitary cleaning, talk to people, do an actual job, not rely on her looks/body and other such things. btwn love how your reply came across as defensively hostile.

[Zbrody1997]

Yeah be bringing in good finances match my sexual energy and understanding

[Asad1ONE1]

They need to be themselves, just like men. Social skills? It applies to both.

[Asker]

Men approach, men initiate, we ask the questions and keep things going. Women dont have to do that. Men dont put women through test to see how good their social skills

[Asad1ONE1]

I don't think most people (men included) approach anyone anymore. That's why we have a lot of frustrated femcels lol

[Asker]

But if we're talking which gender approaches who more thus needs more skill, which gender is that

[Asad1ONE1]

Men. But the tables are turning. Women need to learn the hard way if they want fairness.

[suzzieQ]

Depends on the man. The good ones do take some skill to attract.

[msc545]

Skill at looking good and the ability to speak.

[Anonymous]

For getting any guy, nothing. For a high-quality guy who will not cheat, that can be difficult.