Do women need any skills to attract a man?

[Anonymous]

Men need skills and a lot of experience to attract a woman. But do women really need any skill to attract a guy? Because i don't think they need skill

[coldmarch]

Yes, they do, because women are rejected and friendzoned all the time, too.
Also, don't think that women aren't physically attracted to random guys on the street, coworkers and friends. They are, but that won't make them pursue the guys anyway. It stays a random fantasy in their mind that fades away quickly and doesn't bring any concrete basis to picture any relationship (women look mostly for relationships, not sex-only). Instead, guys might pursue a girl and trying to get her -only- because of her appearance. Girls are attracted too but the difference is they wouldn't act upon that physical attraction only, and when they detect the guy's interest is way more superficial than theirs, they reject. They're not looking for "any guy, as long as he has a d**k". This is why you ask this, because you assume girls look for sex-only too, where only the appearance counts, and that they need no skill to bring a guy to bed. For sure they need less effort for that goal if they really want -any- guy with no standard, but that's simply not their main goal. And even if it is, not all have all the success they want, even in simple sexual hookups.
Another thing is: everyone has a standard. It would be easy for you too, to attract a woman who is ugly, dark and depressed, if you show her some attention, isn't it? But you don't even consider them in your radar because you have a standard, and so you feel that you need some extra skills to reach women of that "level".
If you browse this website you see plenty of girls being confused about male signals and crushing on someone who isn't interested in them. And they all mention a potential relationship or a romantic interest, not a guy who is just "cute" or "hot" and don't know how to seduce. This is just not what they're looking for, for the most. So yeah, in the context of what they want, they DO need skills, absolutely.
I have a couple of friends (male) who are in their early 30s and struggle a lot finding a girlfriend, because: they keep dating a lot of them and meeting new ones, but none of them shows sufficient personality and intellectual traits to appeal to their vision of "settling down", and keep turning off all of them. So yeah, those girls -need- skills to get those 2 guys, because they're looking for a long term relationship, so girls can't be just "hot" in that circumstance, it's just not enough. And my 2 friends can't be a**ed to lose more time in sexual hookups anymore.

[Asker]

Like i told the other woman, if you want a high value man, you will need to fight for his attention since he has plenty of women to choose from. But most of the men that are invisible to women don't expect much from a woman. Simple

1. Be attractive (don't have to be a model and can be average looking and even below depending on the guy)

2. Have a great personality

3. Show loyalty. That's all it takes.

Women make it very complicated for themselves because they think the low tier men have the same standards as high value men

[Red-Blaze]

Yes you do, at least if you want to attract someone on a standard and not any street dog :)
Looking good only takes you so far as first imprasion you get some benfit but keep fucking it up bring nothing to the table but looks and you find the guy pulling away really fast

except when they are really desprate... but that is more likely to be a stacker kind not really attracted that you want except if your mad

[Asker]

See if you want to attract high value men, you'll have to fight for his attention. But most of the men that are invisible to women are not that hard to please and dont expect a lot from you

[Red-Blaze]

For short term no
Long term yes they will

And if not, honestly I will not want to be with them much, if they got no back to have there own needs and wants in who they want
It just sounds bad to me

[Asker]

Yes high value men are this way. They'll take you short term. But when choosing for that long term, they have to put all their cards on the table and choose wisely

[Red-Blaze]

Any Man should do it if they dont

[Asker]

Most men don't have any options though. Men aren't women

[Red-Blaze]

That is BS Sure man are bot woman but that don't mean they don't have options except if they bind them self

[Asker]

See this is why women and men aren't the same. You think and see the world through a female lense while men see the world through a male lens. Most men in the bottom 80% that are invisible to women don't have any options. Your high value top tier men are the ones with the options. You assume a lot of men have options because you're making an assumption based off the top 20%

[Asker]

I wish Patrice o neal was still here. Hed educate women on how things actually work between both sexes. Rip to a legend

[Red-Blaze]

No, I think your mixing things here
Man have options
But like anything its up to them to take it
If you decide you got no options then you don't have
If you choose to have you have

What is so different here is a choose
and its up to the man to do it

except if you live in a "We marry you or you die" state you have a choose if you pick not to take it or use it or work on it
that's on you

[Asker]

If men have options, then why are male virginity rates going through the roof? You see you see things through a woman lens. Ill keep reminding you that men and women are not the same. Especially in the dating world. Women only find 20% of men attractive while the other 80% are invisible. So how do you figure they have options if women don't even notice these men?

[Red-Blaze]

Where is that stat from because again it just sounds made up
Man and woman are not the same that I agree
But if you got options or not its up to each single person to decide man or woman

If virginity is going to the roof and beyond is because someone got a bad start with communicating on a mobile seeing porn and losing the ability to communicate
And you know what? they can work on it
Don't blane the univers

If someone don't see you make your self noticable teach your self to dress, to walk, to be worth more then a pice of meat
Some may get lucky, get good looks, if you don't have that work on your outer options you have them
They will not come to you then go to them
You fail try again and learn and get better at it
The world will not give you options so fucking make them

[Red-Blaze]

Hell woman work on them self all the time
If its makeup, skin care, style
We are not born with this
We work on it!

[Asker]

there's plenty of stats. And women are born with value. They get dick just for existing. Men dont get pussy for existing. We have to work for it. You can't compare yourself to a man when it comes to attracting the opposite. Men must create value, women must protect the value they're born with. And its not complaining or blaming the world. Its just knowing how the world actually works and that all the blue pilled stuff society taught you as a young boy was a lie

[Red-Blaze]

Saying there planty dint mean there not made up from the ass
And sorry but no
Some woman out there will take anyone willing but may not think anyone will do it
and possibly no one will

I look up the stat you talk about and from what I see its from a "research" made up facts and BS
I was born lucky I'll not deny it
But I got friends male and female

Your making the world up, I am sorry but the world is not what you think it is except if your so stuck in your hole you deny seeing the world that is and pick to see an easier world where you just don't have options
On any case I don't feel you going to take my hand and step out from the hole you dig your self following maybe outers so I guess I'll stop here
As this don't seem to go anywhere and I don't want you digging your self deeper in

[Asker]

Even if facts were showed im your face, youd still deny it. Look women have higher standards than men and men and women are not the same in the dating world and that's fine. Women are not evil and they're not bad people for it. I think that's why women have a hard time hearing this because they think men think women are evil and that's not the case. We'll have to agree to disagree because i can't deny your reality and you can't deny mine. We see things differently and that's not going to change

[Red-Blaze]

Thing is I look up your facts and you yet to provide any
just saying it exist
What I see says the stats when they do show up are BS
www.quora.com/Do-women-really-consider-80-of-men-below-average

[Red-Blaze]

I talk to man, so yes I can deny your reality without being a man or needing to experience it

[Asker]

youtube.com/shorts/2biwDg9Ebcw?feature=share

[Asker]

Let me know if you want more links

[Red-Blaze]

Well I like real stuff not a video of as show above reading a research that is bullshit

[Red-Blaze]

So again really think about it, if that is what you link as fact
are you really looking at the world? or are you making up your own and bies your self to see only that

[Asker]

Are you saying my reality is wrong and yours is right and that men and women are the same in the dating world?

[Red-Blaze]

Nop
I am saying your wearing black tinted glasses on the world with a house eye blinds from your own choice
There not the same no
but saying there is no options or trowing BS 80% is absolutely wrong

[Asker]

Im looking at the world through a guy's lens

[Red-Blaze]

So take it off and see it for what it is
not this "guy" lens
Its just making your world worst

[Asker]

Im not a woman so i can't see the world through your lens. Sorry but we're going to have to just agree to disagree on this

[Red-Blaze]

Again did not tell you to change your eyes
I said see the world for what it is
not this blind lens you call "guy" the world is not limiting you, its the lens you put that dose

[Asker]

I am seeing the world and how it actually works. Men and women are different. The dating aspect is very different. Why is so hard for women to understand this? This is gonna keep on going back and forth

[Red-Blaze]

Its not going back and forth because your not moving from your own dug in hole
Your not watching the world as it is, and you where shown facts and pick to ignore them then
So best of luck in life I guess

[Asker]

Let's end it there. Good day

[Jabberjaw]

If she's not already hot enough, yes.
If she's hot enough she just has to not fuck up the vibe, no skills per se.

Not fucking it up basically comes down to just don't be selfish and think "win win". Do that and it'll go well. Girls that actually like men for being men will always have men wanting her even if she's not the most attractive

[Birdlegs]

To attract? No any hot girl will attract a guy
To keep? Yes girls who are genuinely funny can rule the world

[Anonymous]

The only skill they care about is counting their money they stole from men

[D_Bone_Steak]

Ba ba ba bee jay skills is all they need.

[Adronicus]

Some men yes, others no.

[Anonymous]

Nope they are everywhere.