Whats the worst thing about dating sites?

[LemiaOfThunder]

Porn Bots

Fakes

Dumb people

Other

[humanearth]

I found computer dating to be compele waste of time and lacks skill. Dating face to face takes real skill of communication and interactive with each other.

People lie

Even been know known to use Photoshop or fake photos

Takes away them human factor of talking face to face. (Biggest downfall I think)

People loose the skill of communication with opposite sex. (Another Biggy)

[TheSpaceGnome]

Those are valid, but what method is effective in narrowing a search in a realistic amount of time to find the right match?

ie how do you solve the "needle in a haystack" problem, without extensively written dating profiles and a search engine?

[humanearth]

@TheSpaceGnome
In person.

Malls
Grocery stores
Laundrymat
Bowling
Sporting events

Just don't a chicken shit.

Don't be afraid to of talking to a strangers

[TheSpaceGnome]

None of those places narrow down the needle in a heystack problem, 3 of them I don't even use, and 2 of them are places jocks/sports fans go, which is the opposite of what I want.

[TheSpaceGnome]

haystack*

[humanearth]

@TheSpaceGnome they are just examples

[TheSpaceGnome]

They are bad ones though, the idea that in person in is better is false wothout a way to narrow down compatible matches. Everyone shops, eats and does laundry, so that narrows nothing in terms of niche women.

I've sifted through thousands of women a day online, hitting pass on every last one of them. I see no way to do that in person, even though that still isn't efficient enough.

[humanearth]

@TheSpaceGnome Then go where the type of women you like.

If you like circus freak chicks. Go to the circus

That the point I am trying to make.

To me for example

I'm into wearing womens lingerie and my wife picked me up at a lingerie store 31 years ago.

Was not planing on meeting a girl thats into freaks for dating at lingerie store.

What im saying is

It Can Happen Anywhere

[TheSpaceGnome]

"Then go where the type of women you like."

Gamers, science nerds, techies, sci-fi, fantasy and anime geeks, graphic artists.

Women who spend lots of time in front of a computer.

So the internet...

[NathanDavis]

not sure, I've never tried one

but apparently, I heard that for some of them, you can match with people that are on the other side of the world, lol

[Anonymous]

Checked on one the other day and I saw about 15 vaginas in the space of 5mins. For those wondering I'm Bi.

[douride2]

I wouldn't have an idea as I have never used a dating site.

[Guy13]

People allow those sites and sex to define their success and Worth.

[Drachen]

Are you an artificial intelligence or a real human?

[NathanDavis]

@Drachen in order to get response... go like this

-Guy13 (wait for the beep...)
-Are you an artificial intelligence or a real human?

[Pleebody21]

most are those looking for a quick "hook up" even though they may talk of love etc. or may be married to do the same.

The current use of electronic devices to meet people and interact is really terrible. How do you sense an lie which is more than words. Sorry but I'd rather have a cup of coffee at Starbucks and start a conversation.

[ArtemisSilver]

People using them to promote an OF account or crypto scam.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The fact that you can't just scroll through profiles at all, let alone with filters based on shared interests.

[studguy07]

The worst thing these days is all people jus looking to meet and fuck.

[ThePregnantOn3XD]

Guys asking to see my boobs

[clampfan101]

Needing to pay just to attempt communication.