How do you get or go on dates? All, I do now is sleep, shower and hang with my friends? I get home too tired now and on my feet all day?

[poneglyphs]

Last time I have been ona date was 2 years ago and don't know how to try. I never tried at all because other guy's said that I don't need a girlfriend. So, now I'm just single as fuck and no love interest, just me and my cats.

[RobT312]

That doesn’t sound good. You need to get out more. Find some activities where you can meet girls. As you start getting older an easy fallback is dating someone from work. But I think you mentioned there is no one to date at work…so, get out of the house and find opportunities

[poneglyphs]

I can try but I got a new job and it's way more physically demanding than the other job.

[RobT312]

Cool. Yeah I’d try

[MiamiMadness]

Do the same thing you do when you hang with friends but pay for everything. You’re welcome

[poneglyphs]

I do buy my friends food sometimes

[MiamiMadness]

Maybe just get more cats so you can break the ice when you meet a girl and say ‘ Yea I’m surrounded by pssy’ and when they’re about to get offended, take out your wallet and show them pics of your 37 cats lol

[poneglyphs]

Lol, true 🤣🤣

[OfMiceandMen]

Do those other guys have girlfriends? Don't let your buddies dictate your love life. It's time to get out there and spend some quality time with a girl who can also become one of your best friends.

Oh and its not a big deal if you have to give up a little time with the guys. They'll understand.

[poneglyphs]

Some do. Some don't.

[Paulalove98]

Dating apps, volunteering, classes, church, the store, things/places like that. Give it a try.

[poneglyphs]

I am on dating apps but no luck.

[Paulalove98]

Are you picky physically when it comes to a girl?

[poneglyphs]

No, not really I just hardly talk to anyone especially now with my new job.

[exitseven]

You won't meet anyone in moms basement playing video games with your cats. You have to get your drivers license, get out and have some adventures. Life is short.

[Anonymous]

"other guy's said that I don't need a girlfriend"

Listening to other guys was your first mistake.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well those wre my friends or people here. Now I don't know anything about women.