How do you get successful dates? Who do you talk too, go with, or see? The only thing that has gotten me dates are apps but they hardly work for me?

[poneglyphs]

Any clues or tips especially now since it's cold as hell outside? 🥶🥶🥶

[Guy13]

I met my current girlfriend through a friend from 3 months in at www.meetup.com. Outside of that, scheduled free Art, Music, Botanical, etc Girly events.

I found the biggest thing is to go to places that are mostly close to your age group. This takes scouting and Meetup breaks down interests and age groups.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, I have a done a couple of thoses meetups but haven't been on any recently.

[Guy13]

Alright. Took me 3 months building relationships to get a “friend for you” referral

[poneglyphs]

Cool, dude.

[NamerOfStars]

Have you tried adding "I have hot soup and extra blankets" to your dating profile? Might get you a few more hits. Bonus points for noting that your thermostat works.

[poneglyphs]

Lol, no but I have a really good space heater

[NamerOfStars]

Well, part of catching someone's attention is appealing to their needs right at the moment they read about you; maybe you should.

[exitseven]

I have just met most girls I dated by chance. I just happened to be someplace where there were a bunch of people and just happened to meet them. It all boils down to dumb stupid luck.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well, I don't have any luck really 😕

[exitseven]

Sometimes we have to make our own luck.

[slatyb]

Match. com worked for me when I was divorced and didn't know a lot of people. Now I would just ask my many friends if they knew anyone.

[NathanDavis]

I just don't date

[poneglyphs]

Me too honestly kinda of a problem 😕

[NathanDavis]

I don't see it as a problem though

[poneglyphs]

Kinda is if I want to have compassion, sex, and feel love. But you maybe right?

[NathanDavis]

well, I go into relationships with girlfriends which is exclusive and committed... instead of being a serial dater going around

[poneglyphs]

Lol, can't be a serial dater if I don't get dates 😅