Is getting dates or laid easy nowadays? How do you usually go meet women or have fwbs? Do your friends set you up with anyone?

[poneglyphs]

The last time I have been on a date was in January 😅

I don't really meet anyone in my day to day life. I'm just doing my own things and having fun with the people around me and my life. I hardly talk to any women besides from work and close friends but that doesn't mean they want to date me 🙃🙃🙃

[FilmGuy93]

It's not easy at all. You can get used easily enough, but if you want to enjoy yourself, you really have to find and invest in the right people. Like the girl I'm with now is someone I've been talking with and cultivating a relationship with for almost 9 months

[poneglyphs]

That's pretty cool

[FilmGuy93]

The big thing with women is consistency, making them smile/laugh, and making them feel wanted.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, cool. I'm not even talking to anyone at all so... am I doing something wrong 😕

[FilmGuy93]

Can you tell me a little about your hobbies? What you do for a living/your hours, what kind of thing you would want me to say if I was going to brag about knowing you; that sort of thing?

[poneglyphs]

I like sleeping, cooking, playing video games, watching YouTube, reading books, web comics, and manga. Also, I like watching anime, listen to all type of music and hangout with my friends.

I work from 7am to 3:30. It's a warehouse job for now. I make minimum wage and don't drive

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, and where do you see yourself in 5 years? And is your driving situation something that will realistically change in the next couple years?

[poneglyphs]

Probably out of my parents house, in my own apartment and with a car paid in full. Also, with cats and in my career

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, so here is what I would do; start by having one of your stylish female friends take you shopping so you can look better, and then give some new hobby a try. Right now you’re living a life that reflects what’s convenient in your present living situation; but it’s nothing that will bring you in touch with women. So what I want to see you doing is trying activities that get you out into the community.

[poneglyphs]

True, but what do you suggest that I should do?

[FilmGuy93]

Mhh… something lightly athletic like joining a hiking club, possibly. You could also look for ways to volunteer in your area; chicks love seeing a man help others.

[poneglyphs]

Hmm okay I will look at places where they might need help

[FilmGuy93]

Best of luck! And seriously, ask your female friends to take you shopping; they are a huge asset to helping you get other women.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well, I rarely talk to them and they don't hangout with me as much because they're married or have a boyfriend

[FilmGuy93]

Dude. That’s even better, because you know they’re sane (ish). Ask their husband/boyfriend if they’d be cool with you asking the girls for fashion advice.

[Guy13]

Getting laid is not difficult but I don’t do that nor do I look for friends with benefits. Go to the bars‼️

[poneglyphs]

I would go to bars but I don't have a car so I have to rely on uber

[Guy13]

Oh.. that will make it very difficult. I do not know what to tell you. Hopefully, you can get things "straightened out" this weekend !!!

[poneglyphs]

Lol, I will try too. But this weekend is going to be me and my cats kinda weekend 🐈🐈

[Guy13]

See if you ban get one more pussy in the house…

[poneglyphs]

Lol, maybe another cat 🐱

[Guy13]

Alright…,

[Paulalove98]

Have you tried speed dating? Joining a local club or volunteering somewhere to meet people?

[poneglyphs]

I have tried speed dating and didn't get any results. Volunteering no, and clubs I have some what? I don't really meet a lot of people because I still don't have a car.

[bubblegunnn]

Its pretty easy to get that tho! Dating apps, bar, nightclub

[poneglyphs]

Hmmm places I don't really go to and dating apps sucks for me

[bubblegunnn]

Well u want relationship or just hook ups?

[poneglyphs]

I want a relationship

[bubblegunnn]

Avoid all of those tips i gave to u..
Make a move to someone at ur work

[poneglyphs]

I tried most of them have boyfriends of don't look at me like that 🙁

[bubblegunnn]

Awee so bad
How bout ask ur friends to link up w theirs

[poneglyphs]

Lol, my friends don't know any girl's

[bubblegunnn]

No way.. u r not a nerd right?

[poneglyphs]

Oh, opps I am a nerd/gamer/ weeb 😅😅😅

[bubblegunnn]

Gamer is cool tho

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, may be but it's not like I get girls

[exitseven]

I don't think it is any easier today that it was 30 years ago. Maybe it is harder because social media causes a lot of warped expectations.

[TroyDT]

Sex for the sake of sex is easy but boring. A loving relationship is difficult to achieve, at least for me.

[poneglyphs]

Well, I have trouble getting either so...😕

[NathanDavis]

for you? or for me?

[poneglyphs]

Well, for you duh

[NathanDavis]

well... I have spent 16 years on making things better and "easier" for myself so naturally, no, I do not have issues when it comes to finding someone remarkably special to be in a relationship with

[poneglyphs]

Oh, cool.

[NathanDavis]

kind of neat, yes...

but it is hard work