He disappeared?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy recently about a month ago we got into a bad fight and I cut contact. We recently started back talking and he’s went cold/disappear twice since then for a week on end. Recently he called me we were on the phone for 6 hours him telling me how he wants me and how he doesn’t reach out because he doesn’t want to come off as desperate etc. telling me that he is already in a relationship with me, how he has dreams about me … then poof he disappeared and it’s been a whole week since we’ve talked? Yet he still looks at my social media stories? Before are big fight he never disappeared he was consistent. I’m just confused?

[Guy13]

It sounds like me you are his "girlfriend of convenience". When it is convenient to fit you in and mess with your head then he does. Telling you all that "I am living a relationship with you inside my head"... and then going AWOL sounds like Bipolar crazy to me. This could be a blessing in disguise Miss Option #2 or Option #3. Stay Away !!

[Anonymous]

If you want to work towards a healthy relationship then get a man who is consistent in his effort with you. That man’s words don’t matter when he’s fine letting days at a time pass between when you talk — that’s not a man who is serious about you. You’ve got to think, a month is only 4 weeks, and I don't know how long you were talking prior to the fight but it’s been a very short stretch of time and already he is disappearing and not trying how he did in the beginning. Don’t set yourself up to keep dealing with a guy like that, even if you feel like there’s chemistry and you’re starting to like him. You’ll get over him and you can do better. You should want better too.

[boggboss]

Sounds like you are a option