He just disappeared?

[Viniiii]

I met this guy almost a week ago and we hit it off very good. We spent our time together just talking, going walks in the park and simply vibing. Every time we part, he’ll ask what I’m doing the next day. He kept saying things like “we connect so good” and “I think god trying to tell me something “ and things like that. I felt the same way. We been talking about working out together so two days ago I asked him to come with me to the gym after I get off work and he said ok. Yesterday after work I texted him “are you ready”? And he didn’t reply. He didn’t say anything all yesterday nor today. I don’t know what happened and I don’t wanna text him to see. Any clues?

[adamp98]

I'll be honest with you. Sounds like he isn't as interested as he said he was. Most likely he was talking to others or someone else and probably has told them the same thing he told you and instead is giving that other person the attention.

How ever he may have personal things going on that he doesn't want to talk about or maybe he's just busy with his personal life. Until you ask him and if he reply you will not know what's going on. Its best to just text him asking if he's ok and if he doesn't reply you know that he is not interested and has moved on.

[Viniiii]

Yea we had a conversation the last time I saw him. I asked him was he talking to others and he said “yea, but I don’t connect with them like we do “. I was like dang ok nvm. Then he said “you talk to other people tho, I peep it. I’m not stupid”. And I do. So basically he was saying if I cut all my options off he will too but I don't know

[adamp98]

Never stop talking to people because someone tells you to. He clearly doesn't trust you for some reason maybe because of his ex. Its probably best to leave him be if he wants you to stop talking to your friends or possibly making new friends. Relationships are about trust and if he canf trust you then thats his issue.

[adamp98]

Also anyone can they are interested in someone and say you connect better but saying something and showing it are two different things

[LuminousMind]

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[adamp98]

Sure

[SandandWaves]

It's ok to see what's up