Was I so bad that she gave up on me after first date?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl who liked me. Her friends were telling me this for long time. My friend showed me a chat with one of her friend. They were talking about how long she wants me, how much she is into me and stuff. When I met her friend from boarding school she told me she talks about me often. After some time we got closer and things were looking well. Few days after we went out I texted her if she’d go out again and she said she is busy now. I had pretty good feeling about the date. Then her friends told me that she told them that i was nervous and we struggled in conversation. But there was like one really short silence and then we talked fine i would say.

[Guy13]

If you finally kissed after all that time and there is nothing there then that's a huge disappointment. When there's nothing then there's nothing and no one is at fault. Deal with it and act like a man so that she can at least respect you.-Sometimes, that brings unforeseen passion into the question. Do not whine.

[Anonymous]

It's not your fault. Some people are extremely inpatient. You wouldn't want that would you?

[slatyb]

That's dating. She didn't feel it. No big deal.