When do you think she gave up on me?

[Anonymous]

There was a girl I really liked. Her friends were telling me she likes me for a long time. After some time we got closer. I asked her out, she said yes, we kissed few times. Then one day her friends started telling me she is complicated, they are confused of her, she doesn't know what she wants. So i asked her if she still wants to go on a date and she said yes. So we went finally out. But then when i asked her if she’d like to go again she said she is busy now and doesn't want relationship. I wonder if she decided to end it before the date when her friends were saying those things. What do you think?

[Guy13]

I will say this, at least you followed through and asked the girl out !!

I think you should not have listened to the other women. They may not have you or her best interest at heart. I think she got tire of your constant insecure questions about dating rather than assuming she is dying to be with you. She knew you believed her friends or have a lack of confidence in general.

It also could be that there was nothing at the first kiss... If you did not kiss then it is likely that you are not "strong enough" for her. I do not mean "bad boy" but Confident in your ways. I am not there...

[KrakenAttackin]

She just wanted validation and the thrill of knowing she can wrap you around her finger. She really wants Chad to be balls deep in her.