She's lost me for good this time?

[Anonymous]

I have no plans of reconnecting with this woman again who ghosted me the 2nd time over the last 2 years. The second time, I was hesitant about moving forward with her because the last time she was hot and cold and coming off fishy... it seemed like I had to prove myself to her ( she has serious insecurities) . So here we are again , I crossed paths with her again, and she's done it again.. just completely vanished again.. no response to the text of me not feeling well after a month of ongoing stress with college , homeschooling my children, and family stuff.. told her I needed a few days to recharge. I haven't heard from her since sst Thursday... I deleted her phone number and social media... I don't want to talk to her and hurting emotionally.. I wasn't dating this woman nor were exclusive..

I'm just ready to move on and heal from this 💯 I don't trust her and have been single 11 years by choice. I don't trust anyone near me dating wise for this reason of getting hurt by people like this.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Then move on? I don't understand why this is a question. You're time is more valuable than that, trest it and yourself better.

[Asker]

There's past history with her and I, but this is the last time I'm not dealing with relationships anymore

[Anonymous]

Sorry sis. More fish in da seeeeess

[Asker]

I stopped dating in 2014

[Asker]

I don't want a partner with anyone

[Asker]

Relationship either

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. It happens

[Asker]

She was the last person no more to relationships

[Danny_dan92]

Don’t feel bad. Relationships are becoming less common these days. Especially successful ones

[Asker]

I've been single 11 years

[Asker]

I still am now guarded

[Danny_dan92]

I been single for 4 years. And have seen so many people struggle to hold a relationship.

It’s really difficult for people to do commitments these days

[Asker]

Yes it is between the hhosting mind games and immaturity of most people I rather be single as I am

[Asker]

👻 I friend zone everyone and don't get close

[Danny_dan92]

There’s more perks to being single. Lmfao

Only downside is you feel lonely at times. Especially on days where people like to flex that they’re taken. I typically don’t look at social media on these days

[Asker]

Same I don't do online dating as I'm hidden

[Danny_dan92]

I only do online dating cause I’m more introverted. However it’s weird cause as soon as I start another talking phase it doesn’t take long till I lose interest.

This is cause of being ghosted myself and also from my past of being heart broken. I’m too fucken mentally drained to even try dating again. The only thing that makes me wanna talk to girls is that lonely feeling

[Asker]

I'm not lonely just sick of dating is the only thing I'm open to is friends

[Asker]

I'll never date again

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah same

[Asker]

All I can offer nowadays is that I'm guarded of my heart

[Danny_dan92]

As you should be