Whe would you give up on pursuing anything with someone who seems indecisive about you?

[Anonymous]

They blow hot and cold and you don't really know where you stand with them

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[Guy13]

If she is hot and cold but commuted and loyal then I will ride that part of the storm out with her. If she's a hoe about it then I am gone. I have no time for 13 year old indecision, emotional and physical misuse, and/or games in general.

[Anonymous]

maybe that person's been hurt by you way to much and doesn't want to get hurt anymore hence the distancing and that person needs time to heal from all the pain you caused that person

[Asker]

I wish I knew if that was the reason 😐I'd never give up if I knew he had feelings for me. Sometimes he acts like he does then other times he pulls away and I feel he's playing mind games.

[Opinion Owner]

have you talked to him about it?

[Opinion Owner]

i had to pull away recently when her sister said a lot of hurtful things to me calling me delusional saying i never dated her and saying me and the woman i love were never together etc etc after everything i done to help her and her family out for 5 years that's what i get how i get treated by her family which was why i pulled away

[Asker]

I'm very sorry that's happened to you. That must be so painful for you. Today, the guy in my life was friendly but I felt his guard up again.
Sometimes it's as though he likes me but other times I have a feeling there's another woman in his life and he's torn between us both. I know that's an assumption, and I've made many about him, but that's because I don't know where I stand. I've tried to talk to him but he shuts down even more and puts a bigger distance between us if I try to talk openly.

I'm just not sure how yo deal with it. I don't want to cut him off in case I'm wrong about him. But the way he pushes me away is having an effect on my mental health. It's causing me depression and anxiety

[Opinion Owner]

well i can tell you when i was still on speaking terms with her there wasn't any other woman in my life. her otoh was constantly cheating on me with different guys for 5 years and her sister denied covering it up for her as did the rest of her family and friends covering it up. everyday i have massive anxiety from all the shit she pulled

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm very quick to drop a woman flat when she shows any indecision. Because I assume it's only going to get worse from there.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, especially if it kept happening.