Should you drop everything for someone so you can prove you’re interested in them?

[Anonymous]

Let me explain a little bit. So people say if you don’t answer a text or any kind of message in the next hour or so, it means you’re not interested in said person. Are we not suppose to have a life anymore? Are we suppose to drop everything and revolve our time around that person?

[Constatine]

Nope.. hold on tight what your holding. Don't let go until your ready to let go.

That my dear is the curse of whatsapp and othe anti social platforms..

10pm hey i like you shall we date?

10pm 02 so i guess you don't want me... i got no reply.

10pm 40.. what tha fuck. I was under tha shower.

10pm42 well your loss bye

I wrote earlier this week...

Old school romance is getting killed. Nobody have time for the other.. everything is online and they call it friends.

My friend are sitting on the dining table.. we all eating drinking and laughing.. after that we grab a board game.. kiss good bye and shake hands. ..

You like someone... have the fucking nerves to go down town.. ring the door bell... waiting with sweat all over..

While she or he opens the door you want to run... but a sweet soft " hey what are you doing here? " brings you back...

Uhm uhm i uhm... think uhm no i know i loke you... do you like to go out.. the other party accepts with a blushing face.

That is how it works... people forgot all that.

Sorry i keep going and going...

No you should not drop everything.. people have the right to think that over... 😃 and yes we also have a social life. To maintain

[ohsheeT]

Well I guess I'll never get a date LOL or no girl ever think that I'm interested in her
I hate my phone
I mean in the beginning of a relationship or something there's no way that I could do it within an hour's time and that's just because a lot of times I don't have my phone on me because in the last past year I have broken probably eight phones by rolling over on top of them or dropping them from a foot off the ground I can drop them 25 ft off the ground and they won't break. But the foot off the ground it's going to break. But I mean whoever made that rule up is kind of silly because like you said we all have lives we all have things we are doing and there's a lot of people out there that love to carry their phone around in their hand and are on it all day long I'm the complete opposite I hate my phone LOL

[strawberrybaby3]

During the talking stage I feel like people base everything around the other person’s texting habits and measure their level of interest on how regularly throughout the day that person texts them. While I think that does play a huge part in someone’s interest level, it is not realistic to text 24/7 past the 2-3 week mark. After that things are not as new and exciting, and texts will naturally slow down a bit. So no, I don’t think you need to drop everything and be glued to your phone to prove your interest in someone, because you need to maintain your own life as well. You prove your interest level in someone when you frequently make plans to see them and actually grow your relationship beyond just texting.

[loveslongnails]

I find this to be hilarious. LMAO. There are times throughout the day where I don't look at my phone for 8 hours, at least. If someone were to base my interest on them on how quickly I respond to a text, or not, I would immediately know they are not for me. So, I guess the whole thing is kind of helpful in a weird way?

[Asker]

I can go hours not talking to someone. I know people have lives and they don’t need to explain that they’re busy. It’s pretty much common sense.

[loveslongnails]

Exactly. If a woman said to me " I texted you yesterday and you didn't respond for 8 hours, so I guess you're not interested in me", I would probably say... "well, I WAS, until you just said THAT!" !!!

[Adogdog]

I agree, but if a cute girl was interested in me I would reply back pretty quickly lol

[Asker]

Oh, it depends on her looks. Got it 👍

[Adogdog]

You are cute by the way

[dudeinohio]

Dropping a quick text isn't that much of an inconvenience

[Riribichri]

A guy must to propose his women

[Mansearching]

If together then yes. Just talking, no.

[eagle1951]

i guess