Would you stay with someone who’s unsure about you?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That’s kind of hard
I am sure you feel very bad and hurt.. I’m sorry about all this. Clearly your boyfriend doesn’t know or realize you are the real love because you never gave up on him plus life is so short.. it’s time ya all marry and have a family. But his dick thinks life is long and endless and he can have anyone and do anything. I don’t know if you guys can fix this but he is losing so much and by the time he realizes all this this you are probably married to a mentally stable guy

I can stay only if this is some short break etc because they need some time. But I can’t stay if I know he can’t work to fix this broken love. Love is all about respect and trying to figure it out.. people get it wrong. Love is not a momentary attraction. If so then people would break up every 4 hours because attractive people walk around us every time..
love is simply sacrifice and respect — in this moment this guy isn’t trying to fix this respect and talk his emotions et.
It’s up to you but I will stay only if the guy is willing to accept you again all over again as -1st day you guys met!

But if this is too painful for you it’s ok to give up. You can always meet new people always.. so you can still find love and build a new relationship with a safer trust respect

prettyfacegoodtaste · Accepted Answer

i did and it just broke me. years and years go by and you’re always on edge bc you’re never living in Yes!, you end up living in the shadow of maybe and it’s very uncertain. life is already uncertain enough, you know? i think that’s why we ultimately desire someone to be certain of us. i tried to understand what my issue was. i’d lock myself in my room and ask myself why i stayed. then, one day, i finally came to the realization.. i was just being a masochist !!! lol fr 💗

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

I would say nothing to the individual after 7 years, however, I would be organizing my affairs so that a definite move could be made within 6 months. There is no question whether this individual is "in or out". Obviously, this person has moved on so it is time for me to prepare for life alone. I think this particular one would be amicable to it.

He sounds like his thoughts and behavior have been both internally and externally erratic for awhile... that your opinion is not as important as it once was. When was the last time he spoke of a Vision involving you two future?-Reflect back to that time when this was and not soon after it his "unsure" probably began.

It seems that he has moved into a hot or cold stage now. Are you have intimate contact. Usually, when one is hot/cold their heat seeking missile is docking elsewhere.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Honestly, having had friends that went through similar things, I almost guarantee that you guys have been ignoring and not facing problems for a long time, and you have confusion and resentment built up between you.

If you want to try to save this relationship, the two of you need some counseling, and you both need to be prepared to tell the full and honest truth, and to take accountability for your own actions and decisions. If you have gotten through 7 years together, you can make it work, but you are clearly missing some important tools for relationship success, and you need a third party to keep you both honest.

If you won't do that, then you need to accept that it's over, and figure out a plan to move on.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Don't wait on someone who isn't sure they want you or not. It's been 7 years, that's more than enough time to know you want to be with someone or not. He's already made it clear he doesn't by breaking up with you, I think you should move on.

Reece12345 · Answer

He broke up with you. What else needs to be said?

I know you've been together for a long time but, like... he had the balls to tell you he loves you and then he broke up with you the next day.

If this was not an official break up on his part (because he's still talking to you?) make it official on your part.

Dump him and find someone better.

socair · Answer

You have to decide how long you are prepared to put up with that.. and what it is that they are unsure about.

If they doubt my fidelity, then they are doubting my word.. which is totally unacceptable to me

if it something else then I'd have to know what it was before making a decision

Looksnicholas · Answer

If they were unsure about me, they probably wouldn't. If I was unsure about her, I probably wouldn't.

Anyways, I'd wonder however how either one of us was interested in the other even slightly in the first place, lol. 🙃 Ah well.

Blackmoonsns · Answer

Yes because life is too short for uncertain people that play games that will come back and forth that are on again off again who just waste time it's because they do not know what they want in general in life these aren't people you want with you

JasminTheRose · Answer

If he is an unsure man leave him now and go away. Because men tend to be very sure that they like a woman or else he is just playing around with you until he finds someone he is sure about.

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NathanDavis · Answer

unsure how, or about what... ? if she's not sure, we can clarify it and problem solved

lachuppacabra · Answer

no. imagen waking up everyday not knowing if the person besides you want you or not in their life. hard pass on having that taking a toll on your mental health.

Fuentes · Answer

I never understood how people who been together for years have the worse communication between eachother. You should just cut him off and see how he acts

art84 · Answer

7 years together and now he is unsure and breaks up. Time for you to move from him as he wants nothing to do with you after 7 years.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. That's probably the biggest reason I'm single. If a woman's not sure whether I'm her priority or not I'm going to make the decision for her on my end.

AsaKyo · Answer

No, I wouldn't waste my time on an indecisive person

Sisters_Of_Time · Answer

If you're not proposing to me you're not sure, ya? Normal stuff! We both unsure!

amrutha_prekshan · Answer

No never!!! Cause no matter what they'll leave u if some shit happens...

Goodtiger010 · Answer

No, take the breakup now, someone unsure will always be unsure years later and will most time awlays end up with a breakup later or if not now so best to get it over and done with now

DiegoO · Answer

I did and is not an experience I wish to anyone.

1cuteblackk · Answer

No because they’ll forget about you before you know it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, I can't deal with time wasters.

dustybiker · Answer

Not even after a first date.

Summeroflove · Answer

Depends

Midgetmcwidget · Answer

Nope. Better to be single

Jamie05rhs · Answer

After 7 days? Yeah After 7 years? NOPE!

melanieeeB · Answer

Never

thegreenyogi · Answer

No I wouldn't.

Agape93 · Answer

Unsure in what way

Clyde_123 · Answer

Nope.

Brando10222 · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

No way

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